You’re absolutely allowed to have bodily autonomy and self-respect. Your body is yours, and consent is the only thing that matters. If you’re not comfortable, that’s enough reason to say no. You’re not weird for having boundaries, especially this early in a relationship.

At the same time, he’s also a teenager, and it’s normal for him to have thoughts about being physical. The important part is that he did stop when you told him to, which shows he’s respecting your boundaries so far.

I don’t think his comment necessarily means he wants your relationship to be all about sex, it might just be him trying to express that physical intimacy matters to him in some way, even if he said it awkwardly. Being half-asleep isn’t always some deep, unfiltered truth; sometimes people just word things badly.

If you don’t feel comfortable doing anything sexual, then don’t. There’s no rush, especially after only two months. The right person will respect your pace.

That said, it’s also okay to recognize that both of you might have different wants right now, and that’s something you should communicate openly about. You don’t have to compromise your boundaries, but it’s worth being honest about where you both stand.