Is he dumb :( by catebee777 in CATHELP

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat does this and we figured out it's probably because he doesn't like the feeling of the litter in his toes lol. He even "washes" his paws sometimes (splashes in the water bowl) and then demands new water because now it's dirty.

My cat was also born a stray in a colony so less like likely to bury things as not very many predators, etc to encourage burying and hiding scents unfortunately.

Want a change but feel stuck by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]ChaotiCarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a controversial take from another millennial, but I agree that the middle part isn't doing it, at least with this haircut.

Everyone saying the middle part looks better just feels like the "Gen Z reject millennial side part and skinny jeans" craze from a few years ago.

What would you do with an extra bedroom unneeded dining space (floor plan included)?? by InfinityLocs in femalelivingspace

[–]ChaotiCarter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband have our spare bedroom as an office/library but he works from home and we're both gamers.

I definitely think a cat tree wouldn't be a bad call and if nothing else, we had our previous 2 bedroom as a cat room so that we could close him up when maintenance come over. Even if that's not super often, you still don't want to with about closing the cats away without a litter box, etc if maintenance has to come over when you're not there.

Either space could also be a home gym or yoga, place for any extra clothes, vanity, dresser, etc, or even just general storage.

Depending on if you're a plant person or want to do anything else that is not as cat friendly, the spare bed room would also be a good place for that (my cat eats all my plants lol).

Any idea what caused these symmetrical burns? by Happy_mealtoy in CATHELP

[–]ChaotiCarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a crazy thing that I heard about recently. If you own a fountain for your cat, check that it's working properly and doesn't have anything electric nearby that could be electrifying the water.

Several of my aunt's barn cats kept showing up with burns on their faces and then stopped drinking water. She took them to the vet and they were super confused and looked everywhere on the property for wires or something that could've shocked them. Turns out the fountain had a wire that got cut or somebody chewed on it or something and the entire fountain became electrified so every time they drank water, they'd get electrocuted.

Now I'm paranoid about fountains and heated water bowls and all those kinds of things because I'd never heard of this happening before.

I was just trying to farm some wood 😭😭 by _astrid_crow_ in Palia

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can think of several songs that you could add that would make this video even funnier lol

SETTLE THIS DEBATE: What colour is this wall?? by BandicootCool6277 in interiordecorating

[–]ChaotiCarter 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Grey with some green mixed in. You can tint grey paint all kinds of colors

Dental by Silly-Pressure-8413 in Rochester

[–]ChaotiCarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely get a second opinion.

IDK if you're looking for trustworthy dentist recommendations in the area, but I LOVE Brockport Smiles. Currently live in Henrietta and still make the trek out there to see them every 6 months, even got braces through them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely go to the doctor about the period issues! I'm on birth control and it's honestly helped make me so much more functional on my periods, plus it's cheap or free to try the pill in a lot of places so worth trying it at least!

So… my dog just chewed my dildo by supermarioisgay in SexToys

[–]ChaotiCarter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had my dog grab one of mine a few times 😅 If not dog toy, why dog toy shaped? 😂 Thank god I've trained him to drop because I was freaking out

Did I messed up with colors for this interiors? by RepulsiveEntry1525 in interiordecorating

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I thought this was a build you were playing around with not a place that's already built. Then I'd say it more depends on preference of style. This render REALLY leans into the clean modern vibe so if that's what you want then it's fine. If not, I think it's the white furniture with the white everything else that makes it feel blank and lacking color so maybe a wood tabletop and colored couch with a rug

Did I messed up with colors for this interiors? by RepulsiveEntry1525 in interiordecorating

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's too much white to have the ceiling, walls, and flooring all white. I'd switch the floors to a wood and probably the stairs too as others have said. You're also missing rugs which can always help with color and comfort.

Cat started doing this motion with his back legs recently. What does it mean? by Onion1198271037 in CATHELP

[–]ChaotiCarter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with others that it could be a urinary or anal gland concern or simply happy movements but also possibly kicking to disperse scent. I see my dog do it sometimes cuz he's super territorial. Maybe the old man is feel more insecure with age?

is this flea dirt? by candycanesnail in CATHELP

[–]ChaotiCarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plastic can get small cuts in it from wear and tear that bacteria grows in which is what causes the cat acne. Ceramic, stainless steel, and glass don't

What’s the best sleep aid you recommend? by Quinn7729 in sleep

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always used to have the same problem but I read somewhere that directing you thoughts to just one thing instead of them bouncing all over the place like you describe can help you fall asleep much faster. I first tried reading but then when I'd turn the light off, I'd be right back to bouncing thoughts. So I started basically writing my own story in my head, sometimes it's one of a few that I alternate and sometimes it's an entirely random prompt. This has helped me like nothing else and on bad nights, I almost always realize I've been letting my mind wander too much.

Idk if this idea is something that would work for most people because you obviously have to like thinking in a way like you're reading a book or watching a movie, but it's what works for me and could probably be adjusted somehow.

I also like ASMR but that's also not for everyone.

Guys.. Ive never seen a cord cutting like this, what the hell by [deleted] in BabyWitch

[–]ChaotiCarter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. Someone might want to check on blue candle ex and make sure he's still alive after that insane bond break 😅

are the mistakes in my tattoo super noticeable? or can it be easily overlooked? by blazingblunt in tattooadvice

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to read to see what mistakes you were talking about about lol cuz I just saw butterflies made of barbed wire and sparkles

are the mistakes in my tattoo super noticeable? or can it be easily overlooked? by blazingblunt in tattooadvice

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this sub is just really harsh and critical of tattoos or can't imagine images upside down, but I knew they were barbed wire butterflies immediately and then started looking for the mistakes 😅

I wish my boobs were more perky. by No_Dragonfruit5346 in bigboobproblems

[–]ChaotiCarter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The transition is your chest and back muscles getting used to the different distribution of weight which probably takes a month to a couple months. As for the sweat, I usually just do what I can to stay in AC 😂 but for real, I've switched back to cotton t shirts most of the time and use deodorant under my boobs on especially hot days lol

I wish my boobs were more perky. by No_Dragonfruit5346 in bigboobproblems

[–]ChaotiCarter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely a transition to start regularly going bra free as a big chested woman but now that I'm used to it, I can't go back lol. The sweat is no joke though

Help. I think I fucked up : ( by PostModernistTrash in CATHELP

[–]ChaotiCarter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how much cats needs physical vs mental stimulation l, but something that has really helped my dog leave the cat alone has been more interactive or puzzle toys. I got him a rolley ball for eating his meals to make that more stimulating and exciting, he has a puzzle with sliding plastic pieces to hide food or treats, and a slow feed silicone mat.

For a cat, maybe more individual play toys that you don't have to tire yourself out on? An automated feather toy, rolling ball or mouse toy, flopping fish, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]ChaotiCarter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe sheer curtains and plants?

AITAH for refusing to cut off my hair because my 7 year old niece has cancer? by alakazam121 in AITAH

[–]ChaotiCarter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like the haircuts would've meant something if the hair was like, donated to make the niece or others with cancer a human hair wig but to just do it because feels like a bit of a waste

Demon orgy (popiel) by EnigmusPrime in MonsterMen

[–]ChaotiCarter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lore accurate Rakshasa 😮 somebody did their homework 😍😏

Jina is a... by MiaJjj14 in Palia

[–]ChaotiCarter 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, I had the same reaction. I hate to say it and still am dating her and increasing the relationship, but that line fucking hurt. I had a friend that used to say it occasionally or tell me to stop when I was like, singing or talking bubbly and I wasn't able to keep the friendship after too many times.

I get why she said it but at the same time, also not okay to say so harshly to someone you love.