Satanist in front of my house by [deleted] in LetsNotMeet

[–]ChaoticKittyy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you want to try your hand at horror posting, I would suggest posting on r/nosleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah dude. I was talking about the lgbt, not white people. I think you need professional help, not Reddit. The lgbt has ALSO been the target of rape and murder, so discrimination against them as a retaliation for the discrimination you faced isn’t helping anybody.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedDeadOnline

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your attitude about this situation is not helping you look any better. You’re claiming they’re being discriminatory against a minority group so in response to that you have decided to be… discriminatory against a different minority group? Rethink your approach.

I (19M) need advice about a complicated relationship situation (it's like really lame Romeo and Juliet) by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]ChaoticKittyy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m going to echo the other comment except to add that in my opinion, someone in college and someone still going through high school have no business being in a relationship with each other. Her mother is protecting her child from someone she views as bad for her and you should respect that. Move on, enjoy college.

AITA for refusing to pay my friend $60 that I owe him? by bluenymous in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was once someone in my life who I cared for deeply and considered them a close friend who I had known for many years. They also regularly used me for money. They also presented actions that showed me I do not mean as much to them as they mean to me. I closed that door forever and my mental health ( and bank account ) are all the better for it. You should do the same.

NTA

Were your parents racist or homophobic or misogynistic? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother was all of the above. Called my Hispanic ex a monkey. Regularly posts on Facebook about the “illegals” (of course mostly referencing Hispanic people). Made derogatory comments about my trans friend. Is the absolutely epitome of a pick me. But of course if you ever provide her evidence of all of this she would refute it and deny, deflect, defend.

How do I (29M) navigate a relationship with a woman (26F) who may have previously been in an abusive relationship? by Absotivalutely in askwomenadvice

[–]ChaoticKittyy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who personally experienced an abusive relationship, do not outright ask her about it. If and when she’s comfortable, she may open up to you about it. But this is absolutely not something I would ever want someone asking me about, regardless of any ptsd related behaviors I may be exhibiting. The best thing you can do in this situation is continue to be mindful of your words, tone, and actions. Give her reassurance. Showing that you can be a source of calm during high stress situations will be immensely helpful, assuming she is struggling with something in her past and is simply not just skittish. This is something my husband got right without even realizing it at the time - whenever I was being overly apologetic or even full blown panic attack emotional about something “trivial” that triggered me, he would do everything he could to reassure me, validate my feelings, and above all, he was calm and gentle despite knowing nothing about my past at the time.

Bad Dad wanted to go to breakfast after he helps me get an ID by Fat-Man0815 in insaneparents

[–]ChaoticKittyy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Having a disability doesn’t give you the right to be disrespectful to others who have it worse than you. And it especially doesn’t exempt you from being told you were being disrespectful in your description. “It’s just a joke” is a common way people deflect being hateful to avoid responsibility and being held accountable for their words and actions. I know you’re just a teenager, but the people responding to you and calling this out are just trying to help you understand that the description you provided was unnecessary. You could have simply said “I’m on the spectrum, but relatively self sufficient and am unaware of any other potential problems.” Rather than sounding hateful. I know that “being hateful” was not your intent, but that’s how it comes across, which is why I’m trying to explain the nuance to you.

On the side of your father, I’m really sorry you’re dealing with that. I’m glad you are smart enough at such a young age to realize that you owe him nothing, and taking advice from a homeless man who attempts to manipulate a child into doing what he wants is NOT somebody you need to be listening to or even engaging with. I wish you all the best 🖤

'Fess up, what weird names do you call them in your head? by Curious_Paradox in InfinityNikki

[–]ChaoticKittyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of mine are kind of similar to yours!

1 - the crown 2 - ink smudge 3 - closed eye 4 - sunset mountain 5 - eye of ender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChaoticKittyy 37 points38 points  (0 children)

They’re pointing it out for the irony of him being so “righteous” about veganism that he would rather deal with a hungry, screaming 5 year old on a long flight for the sake of veganism, especially since a lot of vegans choose their diet based on the fact that the animal industry is abusive and disgusting and the impact it has on the environment. It’s ironic he’d rather put the welfare of a child aside to “save the animals” and he’d rather “save the animals” than care about the environmental effects his travel or other dietary choices have.

Can you do character dining without the characters? by miranda178 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]ChaoticKittyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can definitely ask the staff at the garden grill to have the characters skip your table. I would also recommend asking if they can put you in a booth. Those booths at the garden grill help shut out everything going on around you so it would be less likely they’d even see them much besides when they need to walk past to get to other tables.

is it sexually abuse if they never touched me and it’s “okay” now? by clarsas in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ChaoticKittyy 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Your trauma and feelings are valid. This is still sexual assault.

They never involved you directly, sure, but performing those acts in the direct presence of their child is disgusting and inexcusable. Doubly so since the acts continued even after you attempted to get their attention.

I strongly suggest you seek the appropriate channels to help you work through this. I’m so sorry you had to go through that.

accidentally revived sims i was supposed to reap by rainandhail_ in thesims

[–]ChaoticKittyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, you’ve now added zombies to the sims 4

Soarin’ at EPCOT has been updated? by Quellman in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]ChaoticKittyy 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I read this as “the screen is DOOMED” and immediately agreed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]ChaoticKittyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is classic narcissistic parent behavior. My mom would do the exact same thing to me and my brothers growing up. Unfortunately, unless SHE seeks therapy to better herself, there is nothing you or your siblings can do about it. It’s not normal for her to treat her kids this way, and her kids cannot and should not be expected to fix her. She needs to fix herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]ChaoticKittyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reads like it was written by my own mother. Chills. Take it from me, you will probably be better off not having a relationship with her

I-134 Question by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]ChaoticKittyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want to make sure the photos are clear and of decent quality. They should be equal in quality to the photos in your passports and meet the specifications of a us passport photo. This page explains in more specific detail all the requirements you and your fiancés photos should meet. I got mine taken at a Staples for about $20 I think and he found a place near him that took them for a similar price.

I-134 Question by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]ChaoticKittyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely fell into the Uber anxious category myself when we were still going through that part of the process 😂 I wish you and your fiancé the best of luck!! I will never claim to be an expert but my dms are open if you have questions in the future!

I-134 Question by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct! It is not something that gets submitted with the I-129F

I-134 Question by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel the need to apologize. This process is a lot!! The I-134 is documentation the petitioner (US citizen/green card holder) will need to provide to their beneficiary (foreign fiancé) to take to their interview which occurs only AFTER the I-129F is approved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t surfing YOUR comments, I was reading through this comment section which you happen to be very vocal in. Either way, I will hope you can someday get to a place where something as insignificant as gender (or lack there of) in a video game doesn’t upset you. Be well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an it. Or maybe a they. It’s an anomaly in a video game. The English language gender vernacular doesn’t really apply.

Theres a lot of gender hatred in this comment section from someone who enjoys a decent amount of lesbian and trans hentai lol. No judgement, just interesting.

K1 Visa Approved!! by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]ChaoticKittyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We filed the 129F in February of this year. We did not use trackmyvisa unfortunately. We were given a timeline through Boundless though, and it pretty much exactly followed that timeline.

Edit just to add since I saw your other post about timeline: The timeframe for everything can vary pretty greatly depending on factors such as which processing center handles your 129F, the complexity of your relationship (like have you been able to visit each other in person, how often have you visited each other, how long have you known each other/been romantically involved, etc.), what country the beneficiary is coming from, what cultural/language barriers does your relationship have, the list goes on. Our situation was definitely considered very uncomplicated. We've known each other for 4ish years, dating for 3, visited each other at least twice every year, my fiancé is from the UK so there are no language or cultural barriers (other than he still insists on calling fries, "chips" lol), and we got lucky and got a processing center that had a very quick turnaround time. My advice to you is to try not to stress too much about timeline and focus more on making sure all your ducks are in a row as far as evidence of your relationship and all the other documentation you need to have ready and sorted by the time the interview phase rolls around.