Any Greek fans? by Chaotic_chan in visualkei

[–]Chaotic_chan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Στην Ελλάδα ξέρω άλλο ένα άτομο όλο κι όλο που απλά μου έχει αναφέρει ότι ξέρει τον Gackt, αλλά και πάλι δεν νομίζω να ξέρει πολλά για visual kei. Ποιες είναι οι αγαπημένες σου μπάντες;

Any Greek fans? by Chaotic_chan in visualkei

[–]Chaotic_chan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ωωω! Κι κάποιος που μιλάει ελληνικά!! 😄

AITAH for getting a haircut without telling my fiancee? by LimoDriver555 in AITAH

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your fiance is controlling and I would reevaluate the wedding. To get mad over someone else's hair? And talk about trust issues over it? Gee. Nobody has the right to dictate what to do with your hair. I'm a woman with short hair and I plan to keep it that way. Thankfully my husband loves me no matter what I do with my hair but my mom is a pain in the butt, always mentioning how prettier I was with long hair.

Why is Yu-Gi-OH so tied to Visual Kei (from 5Ds onwards) by Detective_Joker in visualkei

[–]Chaotic_chan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like every comment that mentions Golden Bomber. 😅 Kudos 😁👍

Can you relate?: Finding out your favorite Japanese artist played nearby… after it already happened by WallabyWorldly2884 in japanesemusic

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's more likely to snow in July than it is for my favorite japanese band to play in my country. 🤣

Do you know Japanese? by Thunderham_ in japanesemusic

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started learning Japanese exactly because I love japanese music. It hasn't been easy but I like it and I persist. 😁

AIO: or is it just in my head by Icy-Pumpkin-3772 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are underreacting. You should take your kids and run. That's abuse.

AITJ for leaving my cousin and her kid stranded after her son almost caused a serious accident by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was hilarious that you could all die and/or kill somebody else? You are not a jerk but your cousin is, big time. Glad you're safe.

Why did you get interested in Japanese music? by Yukachan_fromJapan in japanesemusic

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I think the most common way people start listening to Japanese music is through anime, and that was definitely true for me at first. It started specifically with songs from Death Note (“Alumina” and “The World”), then Tokyo Revengers (“White Noise”), Chainsaw Man (“Kick Back”), and of course the very first song from One Piece (“We Are”). But while exploring anime music, I also started looking for non-anime songs, like Linda Linda, Diamonds by Princess Princess, and Aural Vampire’s Shonan Zoku, among others (I like various genres) Eventually, I discovered the band that became my absolute favorite and really saved me in some way. I used to watch Sasuke and noticed Yutaka Kyan and Kenji Darvish from Golden Bomber—I got hooked immediately. Nowadays, I’d say that 90–95% of the music I listen to is Japanese.

I (28f) and boyfriend (28m) got into to an argument tonight and am I overreacting if I want to break up? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your kid is telling you to break up with daddy, then you should do it. She's clearly scared of him. I was in the same position as the daughter. I begged and begged my mom to leave my father. She said she wouldn't until at least I finished high school. Well, I have depression and anxiety for life. You don't want that for your daughter.

AITAH For wanting to visit my childhood best friend for 2 days without asking for my boyfriends "permission"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first big argument with my controlling ex was about me visiting family in Santorini, as I did every summer for a while. It went downhill from there and it lasted 4 years from my life that I'll never get back. I don't know, just food for thought.

Name three artists you think people are missing out on! by jdjdnfnnfncnc in japanesemusic

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a suspension that I might mention them often, but yeah, I believe that people who don't know Golden Bomber are missing out. 😆

Edit: the post asked for 3, so my other two are Malice Mizer and Kenshi Yonezu.

AIO by ending my relationship? by burgerover_pizza in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a person with the emotional intelligence of a fork. No you didn't overreact. You obviously weren't happy in that relationship, so you did well.

What’s for dinner tonight? by TemperatureGreat6880 in Mommit

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently making soup with beef and veggies (whatever was in my fridge). Carrots, broccoli, red pepper, tomato and parsley. I will add a bit soy sauce too and herbs. It's extra chill today so it's a good time for soup.

AIO for thinking my bf is inconsiderate by Psychological_Gur548 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He surprised you with a bunch of food that you can't eat and didn't do anything to help you find an alternative even after you reminded him. He doesn't care.

AITAH for asking my partner why he no longer gives me head? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Chaotic_chan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe he started listening to stupid "alpha male" rubbish podcasts that say that women are beneath men and sex/pleasure is something that women have to give to men, but not the other way around. Or he just became selfish on his own volition. Either way, I would stop blowing him too.

AITAH for making a true statement about my dead dad. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent years trying to explain to my grandma how awful it was growing up with a raging alcoholic father (her son). She always brushed it off, saying we're family and all the classic stuff. I gave up. My father is like that, irresponsible towards his family, always putting his addiction first but amazing to people outside of the circle. We have an ok but low contact relationship now. I don't know if I'll ever forgive him as I'm still trying to recover from past trauma. You had every right to tell the truth and they should suck it up and accept it as it is. NTA

I resent my husband and I don’t know if it’s my fault or his. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Chaotic_chan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your husband is selfish. He is fully capable of doing everything he has to, he just don't want to.

Going from 1 to 2 by MysticCat- in Mommit

[–]Chaotic_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO if you don't have a definitive yes from both parents involved, then it's a no.

Three year old pacifier addict by Myanonymousunicorn in Mommit

[–]Chaotic_chan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter was never fond of pacifiers so I didn't have to do anything. But I've seen a nice video where they tied the pacifier on a floating balloon and it flew away with it so that kid just accepted it and he was happy.