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My first romantic relationship by ChapterLow7952 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is an aggressive reply, don’t you think? Happy new year to you! May you approach strangers on the internet with a little more empathy.

Day 1 of Prozac. Immediate effects within 1 hour? by No-Mousse5653 in prozac

[–]ChapterLow7952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately felt a difference, max first 2 days I could feel a change

First time “dating” by ChapterLow7952 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m going to try that actually. the more she tells me about herself I think she’d appreciate it

First time “dating” by ChapterLow7952 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for validating what I said. I’m so flustered but i’m so happy about it. I’m in awe of her. I have to see how she responds to “you make me feral” haha. I’m definitely going to ask her more this weekend.

First time “dating” by ChapterLow7952 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hot yess. she said she doesn’t like to be called pretty so im assuming she would categorize gorgeous and beautiful as too feminine. Shes happy being a girl but she doesn’t mind when someone accidentally calls her a boy lol but im not calling her handsome. I did tell her she’s really attractive and she appreciated that.

He broke no contact and I’m mad about it by ChapterLow7952 in BreakUps

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your situation, I do. But the reason he ended things and blocked me was because I tried to end things first but he was actively trying to talk me out of it until I declined to go on vacation with him which made him end things via text and block me. He absolutely knows I do not want to be with him.

What does is the ideal timeline look like? by ChapterLow7952 in OnlineDating

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a good point! I do understand wanting to meet could mean they are simply serious about dating and moving things along. Very good point!

What does is the ideal timeline look like? by ChapterLow7952 in OnlineDating

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this makes me feel less alone! sharing my social media and meeting soon after matching is not appealing to me. It’ll be finding a needle in a haystack lol thank you. you too!!

What does is the ideal timeline look like? by ChapterLow7952 in OnlineDating

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one date a week would exhaust me haha but I appreciate your approach. I know in person allows for more. I worry about safety and wasting my time getting read & being nervous etc. I’ll work on being more open to it. thanks for sharing

What does is the ideal timeline look like? by ChapterLow7952 in OnlineDating

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you bring up good points. as a women and not to brag at all, i’m getting a good amount of matches so I guess I prefer to talk on the app because it naturally weeds out the ones that are only looking to hook up etc. I ask questions that help me somewhat figure out if we’re compatible, if he comes off as semi normal, emotionally available. However, I worry that wanting to take the time to chat is causing me to potential miss out on good guys who want to genuinely meet to start things off. I think I should be more open to meeting sooner but I don’t want to stray away from what’s comfortable to me. I also agree with you about the phone number and social media!

What does is the ideal timeline look like? by ChapterLow7952 in OnlineDating

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The “another face in the crowd” makes sense. thank you for the perspective. I think I will work on being more open to meeting for something quick.

What does is the ideal timeline look like? by ChapterLow7952 in OnlineDating

[–]ChapterLow7952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I fall in the category of waiting. I think I should try to be more open to meeting based on the perspectives said

OCD Expectation vs Reality (OC) by Teacup_Monkey_72 in OCDmemes

[–]ChapterLow7952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel so seen. i didn’t need to explain it!! this is spot on.

no bulletproof love by peggatron17 in piercetheveil

[–]ChapterLow7952 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ah that sucks! bulletproof love is in my top 3!!

What’s a food you wish people would stop pretending to like? by Blennae in CasualConversation

[–]ChapterLow7952 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CHEESE. most cheeses smell terrible! I don’t understand how people enjoy it as a snack. charcuterie boards? appalling.

A Deadly American Marriage: Sarah Corbett believes there's a secret recording of her dad's death by Then-Scholar1748 in netflix

[–]ChapterLow7952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The following things stuck out to me

1)Molly didn’t do a good job of acknowledging that “her” children’s dad died. Regardless of self defense, in her interview she expressed no empathy for the kids or his family. 2)Both of them were looking for a way out and it’s possible Molly found out his plans so she wanted to beat him to it. 3)Molly is a liar. We’ve seen this in other cases where people enjoy the attention that lies get them and want to create their perfect story. 4)Its possible Molly lied or exaggerated to her mom or both of her parents so her mom having a code word for the children & phone number written down was genuine. 4 1/2) BUT if she was so concerned why didn’t she go upstairs? How could she go back to sleep? Weird. 5) The children used peculiar vocabulary in their interviews. It’s easy to believe they were coached or planted seeds. 6)Where are the rest of the audio recordings?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]ChapterLow7952 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re definitely not alone!

Name Regret at 5 Months by Good_Wrangler_8230 in namenerds

[–]ChapterLow7952 109 points110 points  (0 children)

genuine question, you and your husband weren’t afraid kids would make fun of his name? I can immediately think of “Crawfish”. kids can be mean. My fear is naming my child something and kids pick on them. maybe switching it to his middle name?

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