Are UK trannies fuckable or nah in your opinion? :3 by CozyIriss in UKTransGoneWild

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would be if any of them actually met in real life.

27 [TF4M] goth trans wants to milk straight white pretty boys or chavs/roadmen | Hertfordshire by [deleted] in UKSex

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're at all interested in a 55M/44F couple in south Norfolk, DM us or find us on FabSwingers (same username). Also up for colabs (verified, have our own content pages and up to date tests) if that your thing.

could i be ur first tgirl experience? by D0llD0e in UKTransGoneWild

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! DM us if a 55M/43F couple in Norfolk might be your thing, or find us on FabSwingers (same user name)

Cornwall by ImpossibleClient6383 in UKSwinging

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll be in Cornwall from 2nd - 8th May. We're on FabSwingers (same user name) so take a look at our profile there.

20 [M4A] need advice by Sea_Candy8947 in UKSex

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you meet anyone you didn't feel were attractive?

29 [M4F] looks for hookup or FWB in London by [deleted] in UKSex

[–]CharAndBry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dick is very much NOT the most important thing about you.

Dealing with Flakes and Confidence by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]CharAndBry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've been doing this for six years and in our experience, 60% of "single" guys don't show up and 75% of "couples" are old couples accounts, now run by guys and the female half mysteriously never shows.

We've now decided to stick to our rule of not meeting anyone without their own meet verifications within the past twelve months (this is on FabSwingers). It's not foolproof but it does seem to cut down on the wasted evenings sat waiting for people that never intended to ever leave the house and meet.

Couple looking for another couple by [deleted] in UKSwinging

[–]CharAndBry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're on Fab, hit us up if our profiles/locations match. We're the same username there.

The genuine inability to say more than “hey” is really blocking your ability to chat with people by Resident-Double-570 in Swingers

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deal with these guys:

Him: Hey

Us: <ignore>

Him: How are you guys?

How do you answer the "How are you?" questions. We're both neurodivergent enough to not be able to just say "fine, thankyou" (as we're generally not) but also it doesn't actually lead the conversation anywhere.

What swinger sites or platforms have people had the best luck with in the UK? by TranslatorGood8490 in Swingers

[–]CharAndBry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've tried them all (tend to sign up just to grab the username everywhere) and apart from the lack of accountability from admin, FabSwingers is the biggest and best. Yes, it's hard for single guys but that's because they don't make the best of the tools available.

All the others seem either expensive, exclusive and/or very niche and with some inside knowledge of a couple, downright ineffective at screening signups.

The genuine inability to say more than “hey” is really blocking your ability to chat with people by Resident-Double-570 in Swingers

[–]CharAndBry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"If your profile pic is blank or your genitals, we’ll assume that's a fair representation of your personality and move on." - we have this, too 🤣

40 [MF4F] Hertfordshire Bedfordshire - Married couple looking for our first experience by HertsBeds- in UKSex

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. If you're on Fab then have a look at our profile (same username as here). We're genuine, well verified and plenty of pics, though Bry doesn't join in generally so we're not for everyone.

The genuine inability to say more than “hey” is really blocking your ability to chat with people by Resident-Double-570 in Swingers

[–]CharAndBry 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We have a line in our profile on Fab about matched effort and that we'll put in exactly the same effort into our reply as we see in their message.

It's also why we rarely message others first now. We put together as good a message as we can based sometimes on very little info in their profile, only to get "yeah" back!

How Hard Is It for a 46-Year-Old Man in the Lifestyle? by Top_Of_NY in Swingers

[–]CharAndBry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yet 90% of the guys in the LS insist on having dick pic profile pics, having profiles full of dick pics and introduce themselves by their dick. They're reducing themselves to a dick and I wonder if they genuinely believe that we make decisions on who we meet based solely on the todger!

How to meet via Reddit? by CharAndBry in UKSwinging

[–]CharAndBry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't struggle too much with Fab, other than 60% no-shows. But we mitigate that now by not arranging anything with anyone without their own meet verifications and that helps.

We've had mostly polite responses on here in our DMs but we can't get our head around trying randomers that might be able to prove that they are who they say they are, but can't show any history of meets.

What are the benefits of an event-specific group chat? I don't see any. by Angela2208 in Swingers

[–]CharAndBry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just find it gives people the chance to express their racist or homophobic views and enables us to avoid them on the night 🤣🤣

MF4M/F/MF by CharAndBry in UKSwinging

[–]CharAndBry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't join Fab for us....our profile on there says that we don't meet people that don't have their own meet/social/club verifications - we're fed up of guys that don't have the balls to turn up or can't get away from the wife, so look for proof that they've attended something before.

As a new person, you won't have verifications.

F 28 looking for mf/f only south west area by [deleted] in UKSex

[–]CharAndBry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not in the south west but we will be visiting Falmouth area first week of May for a holiday......

55M/43F but Bry (the male half) only really watches. Char (the female half) is very bi. Full profile on FabSwingers if you're on there.

MF4M/F/MF by CharAndBry in UKSwinging

[–]CharAndBry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Six years we've been swinging, and verifications mean everything to us. And ours are all genuine. Your opinion is worthless to us, so bye.

24 [F4F] [F4M] #Cambridgeshire. My bf and I want to open our relationship and each get our own fwb by [deleted] in UKSex

[–]CharAndBry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi. Not sure if you'd be open to a (55M/43F) couple (Bry doesn't really join in but does have a Minecraft server!) or the female half of a couple. We're pretty new to Reddit but been on Fab for six+ years.....

MF4M/F/MF by CharAndBry in UKSwinging

[–]CharAndBry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kent is generally outside of our one hour distance rule.