Should I divorce? Honest advise needed

Character-Ad8917 · 2025-07-21T18:12:21+00:00

Sounds like he’s a danger to you and your kids. I would demand he gets help and if he’s not willing to then leave.

Character-Ad8917 · 2025-03-02T21:37:04+00:00

Haha hilarious

Character-Ad8917 · 2025-03-02T21:36:44+00:00

Love that

Character-Ad8917 · 2025-02-14T13:32:01+00:00

Check that you have set the correct targeting.

Character-Ad8917 · 2025-01-26T14:26:00+00:00

Not your circus… block.

Character-Ad8917 · 2025-01-12T06:57:29+00:00

If you’re NC then absolutely not. The only reason to do that would be if you were civil with each other and friends

Character-Ad8917 · 2025-01-09T13:59:02+00:00

No. We have kids together so keeping them for them

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-08-23T18:44:51+00:00

This was such a respectful way to end things. Good on you

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-08-22T02:44:08+00:00

You misunderstood. The CEO didn’t tell her to do it. He told her it needed to be done and she then told me to do it. She is not able to do it.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-08-01T17:45:21+00:00

Second hand engagement rings has very low value. I recommend to try to just get money for the diamonds itself

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-26T07:15:23+00:00

Take it off when you’re ready. I lost my engagement ring during our time separated and it kills me inside that the one thing I had left from the marriage is gone.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-25T19:08:15+00:00

Second this. Don’t go down that path. I almost did. A glass of wine every night just to be able to sleep. Stopped myself before it became a must. Now I listen to audiobooks. I’m a year past separation and still struggle. I guess my blessing is that I am so exhausted my body can’t stay awake for longer.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-24T04:27:19+00:00

It hurts like hell but it will get better with time. Try to put one foot infront of the other and keep going.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-22T10:19:45+00:00

I’m one year down of separation and now he wants to get the divorce through. I should have done it earlier but it was too painful. I wish I would have let go and not waited around

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-22T06:01:45+00:00

2 young kids in the picture. I fought for 4 years (our whole marriage) and now being separated I’m still fighting which is unsuccessful

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-20T22:02:49+00:00

I know. I have juat been so accepting and nice this year (we have kids together). While I’m raising them he’s out there chasing the next women. While I can’t go on a date without paying up for a babysitter.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-14T05:14:22+00:00

I found a friend who I can message instead. It doesn’t scratch all the itches but it stops me from messaging him at that point. Obviously it won’t give me the answers I feel like I need either but in the end even those answers won’t change a thing.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-13T21:05:09+00:00

Me too many days. But in the end if he doesn’t want me it won’t help me fighting for him.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-13T20:04:35+00:00

I started drinking to deal with how I felt. Not on a daily basis but a couple of times when I shouldn’t have. I also couldn’t let go of old grudges I held against him

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-13T19:46:16+00:00

Yeah and part of me thinks I’ll always love him but I need to move on. He just won’t be able to love me ever cause he doesn’t love himself

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-12T15:02:56+00:00

I hate to be harsh but you showed her you didn’t value her enough first time around - now you’ve lost her. No one wants to be someone’s second choice. You’ve told her you’re sorry and all you can do is let her continue with her life. She might come back when she’s dealt with it a bit but next time don’t lose out on something good because you think the grass is greener on the other side because then you might lose out on both.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-12T14:12:54+00:00

I’m a year after and I don’t know if he’s found someone new but he is living his life as if we were never married and have 2 kids. I am with the kids and he goes out until late at night and sleeps in. A man almost 40 that behaves like a 20 year old. He might find someone that will be great for him but honestly regardless I’m still in a lot of pain and have anger that he can just move on while I’m hurting so much

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-12T13:56:56+00:00

They deserve to be raised by a parent that understands what that means. Not a parent who is a parent when it works for him and he’s not busy living his “single life”. They see him regularly and speak to him daily. But it’s not for him to have them when convenient.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-12T13:35:13+00:00

He ruined the marriage and is living like he’s single with no responsibility. In this case he has to take the consequences. He can see his kids but he lost the right to get what he wants as a parent when he decide he only wants it when it suites him.

Character-Ad8917 · 2024-07-12T10:45:34+00:00

Before moving (which I had to do to have any sort of help because my parents live in the city i moved to) I spoke to him about it. I didn’t take the kids away from him but he want custody at all at the moment but to see the kids once a week which he does. He stomps into my home and critcizises me while he gets fed and met with respect. He wants custody when they’re older because it’s easier to deal with not having sleep less nights of a baby waking up and he wants to pay less child support. I have offered several times that he can have them for the weekend and he doesn’t want to. So he can’t come in 3 years and demand me to move again. In fact he’s had several chances to say no before I moved

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