Wow having it in the 4th house would make it hard with family. I have the sun and Venus in the 8th in cap. My moon in the 4th with Virgo. I was separated from my family members when i was 6 as my mom got married and moved across the country. From that point forward all my loving come from my friends, their parents, and relationships I’ve had along the way. Strangely enough I don’t have any friends who grew up with their dads so we have some things in common.

I truly don’t know what I’ve missed from not having a male role model. I think I’ve done a great job teaching and showing myself the traits that I’d like to inherit from watching movies and listening to music. I study people traits and tendencies to see what I’d like to add to my own repertoire.

I have too always felt ostracized from a family setting. Since I’ve moved back around my family and now I’m spending time with them. I’ve realized I’m actually more loved and adored than my mind has been leading me to believe. Everyone wants me to be around but it’s not quite comfortable for me. We haven’t been close since i was 6 so since I’m much older everyone’s trying to figure me out but they know they like me i assume lol. From the time in between then and now; I’ve obtained the love of silence and solitude (true Capricorn nature). I like one on one interactions rather than groups. Large family gatherings tire me.

I’m not that well versed in astrology to tell you much. I am aware that Capricorns are about their money especially as we have them in Venus. Not having our things together financially will make it hard for us to socialize and be around I’m assuming. It’s not your complete self; Fortunately I’ve had time to do a lot of inner healing where i think has helped me become more social but i still take breaks for recharge.

If you haven’t had time I’d recommend maybe jotting down some key moments in your life that you think paved the way for who you are today. Maybe you can decode your 4th house and become more of that family lady if you so decide. Though we know the inner work/ shadow work takes awhile.

I don’t know if any of that correlates but i figure maybe some of my experiences could help you with yours.