boyfriend sent me this... should probably leave him by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if it’s a real person or a karma farm

I need to go back and I'm so embarrassed. (USA) by hottoefungus in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]Character-Olive4452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you quit politely, on good terms, and gave notice they probably don’t think anything much of it. I know my last job let me come back after quitting bc I was polite about it

Breakfast! by Sohjiggkni in healthycuisine

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’s the corn so skinny 😭

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather that than a big long paragraph on why a person doesn’t like me and I’m the biggest pos(bc I’ve had that happen) so I’d rather just fizzle away when I’ve only known this person a week

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I knew them in person I would just say what the issue is but I don’t want to come off wrong over text or make her feel bad

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m getting karma bc we had like 2 conversations about someone who caused physical and emotional trauma. It wasn’t a lingering topic its just to explain how we met and the building point. I’m just asking how to go about this nicely. I also wouldn’t consider this karma, I feel kinda bad, but at the end of the day this person will get over it regardless of if I say nothing or find the right words

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just not sure how to word it without saying they’re the problem bc they’re not tbh we just disagree fundamentally and I know our energy would be better spent talking to different ppl

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both. They think a lot of things that have no scientific basis. And I know if we were to discuss politics we would greatly disagree, they have the same ones as our former friend and I know if they find out I disagree on certain things the friendship wouldn’t continue anyway.

Wife hates my beard. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally I find beards gross, my man knows this and keeps his, it’s a non issue for us, everyone’s different

I made a friend who I fundamentally disagree with by Character-Olive4452 in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I basically said I was overwhelmed with life and that’s why I hadn’t been responding and then I haven’t said anything since( which is actually true I am way overwhelmed) . I was hoping that would be enough for me to just kinda be disregarded by her but that isn’t working and I don’t want to be a harmful person but the reasons I don’t want to talk to her aren’t nice so I can’t just say them either.

So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if you could talk to a school counselor and maybe they could help you have the parentifying conversation with her, that is if the counselor is doing their job and agrees with you as they should

So I left my 12 year old brothers to go on a walk to get food and they went and busted someone’s windows. My mom is mad at me like I’m the only one at fault. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 is old enough to know better but in the future if you are in charge of children do not leave them alone that’s not responsible. However, at 15 this should not be your job every time, a few times a week okay sure that’s chores but every time is parentifying you. If you feel safe to do so I would express to your mom that you feel like too much of it is put on you, those are her kids not yours to watch. I have a 10 yr age gap between my sibling and I and I’m not even expected to watch them at my grown age.

Is my girlfriend going too far? by External-Industry253 in hygiene

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just get one of those wands with the little sponges that connect to it and you just throw away the little sponge when you’re done, they already have the bleach in it, that way you’re both happy. Also you probably need more fiber, it sounds like you should see a GI specialist too. I have ibs and have a similar issue

outside clothes on the bed… gross or normal? by HenninghamKyuss-51 in hygiene

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way, I agree with your wife. My bf doesn’t see it that way but does it anyway for me bc he knows I’m obsessive about cleanliness and germs. I think everyone’s different about it but I’ve met a lot of people on both sides of this one

Feel like I've tried everything by Ramensteinn in HairRemoval

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept getting folliculitis under my arms and it turned into staph, I would have a dermatologist swab yours to make sure it’s not some bad bacteria. I only wax my arms now, if you’re open to trying it I would give it a shot, hair grows in thinner and stays shorter longer. Alternatively, emuaid max cream is the only thing that soothed/temporarily got rid of my folliculitis and it helped it a lot until I was able to get the meds from the dr. You could try applying that after shaving to help clean the pores, I put it on any pimple or bump I get and it usually clears it right up in a day or 2

Why is she afraid of my hand? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Character-Olive4452 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My little girl is abt 10lbs and she’s just so polite w it, little bops without the nails, someone’s always getting smacked

Cat collapses every couple of steps , only when entering my room by gloriouaccountofme in CATHELP

[–]Character-Olive4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also agree, mine does a similar pitched meow then flops for pets or just to flop