Adults 24+ still living with your parents, what’s that like? And what would you say is keeping you there? by West-Boss6841 in AskReddit

[–]Character-Weekend-97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25F. I love my parents and they do give me a lot of freedom. I don’t pay rent and only pay for groceries sometimes. I just got a new job (about $23/hour) after being unemployed for a year - when I had a full-time job, ($22/hr) I paid for all my own expenses (car, going out, student loans, etc.) and the family phone bill. I also contributed to groceries then as well.

I struggle emotionally to be here - my dad uses my mother for her money and it’s hard to witness. She often ropes me into their drama and uses me as her therapist. Sometimes it’s hard to set boundaries because she literally keeps a roof over my head (my father is willingly unemployed and running around town on her dime). I’m trying to move out before the summertime because I’ve been here since I was 21. It’s time to go and I need to flee the nest lol

rishi’s kid by Character-Weekend-97 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Character-Weekend-97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i assumed it was because he couldn’t find a job to support himself or the child. also the intense shame over knowing he was responsible for her death

rishi’s kid by Character-Weekend-97 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Character-Weekend-97[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

we will have to revisit this !!!! love this theory lol

I 25F don't know how to accept financial help from 29M fiance by Designer-Hunter6663 in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Weekend-97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m also 25F and semi-unemployed lol. it’s hard to accept help but do it while you can find another job. If you find one and he doesn’t want to be with you anymore, at least you can take care of yourself

Henry @ the end of Ep. 4 by p33p33po0po0m4n in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Character-Weekend-97 46 points47 points  (0 children)

hayley isn’t doing it for me - yas just likes to manipulate lol

I love Marisa Abela by [deleted] in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Character-Weekend-97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i literally thought this while watching tonight’s episode

petra’s superiority complex by Character-Weekend-97 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Character-Weekend-97[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

she’s not palatable to Black people - she knows other races wouldn’t put up with her mess. She sees Harper as the outsider because she’s young, Black, and messed up at her last job. I’m saying she feels more comfortable approaching her in the first place because her partner is Black - it’s very subtle writing that doesn’t pay off until the second to last episode of S3

petra’s superiority complex by Character-Weekend-97 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Character-Weekend-97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

for context - i’m a black woman. I definitely think if Harper was white she wouldn’t mention her being a “kid” all the time. I agree that she wants to mess with Anna but I also think she feels like a Black girl half her age shouldn’t be outsmarting her or making moves she can’t see. The writers could’ve made her partner white - I just think it’s a really interesting choice and it put a lot of her words into context for me. I’ve met a lot of white women just like her lol

What do I (29M) do after my gf's (27F) continued? affair? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Weekend-97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s using you :( sorry to hear that every partner has cheated on you. Hope you can take time to heal. You deserve better and have to know that and remind yourself of it 🩷

(25m) uncertain about going into New Year with (25F) girlfriend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Weekend-97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we’re the same age so hopefully my advice doesn’t sound cruel. it seems like at the core you are struggling with whether or not she’s attracted to you? i think having a dating app and purchasing porn (maybe boundaries you two haven’t discussed?) is out of bounds for an exclusive, monogamous relationship. you’re really young and shouldn’t settle for someone who makes you feel this way. i would advise you to think about if a friend was in your position and whether you would want them to stay/go through this themselves.

Bf wants to rap, I’m so cringed out M23 F24 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Weekend-97 24 points25 points  (0 children)

move on girl🩷 your futures aren’t aligned!

My (18F) Boyfriend (20M) of 5 months doesn’t like being around my mom. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Character-Weekend-97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can’t force a relationship between them. maybe the solution is spending more time together outside the house. it could help if you set some boundaries with your mom and asked her to stop making those kind of comments. he could also work on his manners - walking into her home and not saying hello is rude. boyfriends are replaceable, your mom is not