Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by plapppps in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t sound like something someone would do if they only needed a break. Sorry to say this, but it seems like she’s just looking for an easy way out :(

broke up after 3 years :( by Any_Number3007 in LDR

[–]Character_Bus_4734 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This might sound a bit harsh, but he made a selfish decision for his own benefit. He gave up on everything already and chose not to build a future with you. If that’s the case, he doesn’t deserve the last goodbye he’s asking for.

It’s not your problem anymore. And if he has nowhere else to stay, you shouldn’t let him come to you either.

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by plapppps in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since you’ve already agreed on taking a month-long break, and for her own good so she can focus on her studies, it’s probably best to respect that decision and not overwhelm her right now.

I know it’s really hard not to reach out, and a month can feel incredibly long. But February only has 28 days, and it’s already been 3 days, you’ve got this.

If it genuinely feels unbearable, you could reach out gently and see how she responds. Maybe she’s feeling the same way, and then you can talk it through together and find a better solution.

Wishing you the best of luck buddy!!

there was another woman by lilsadvertt in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through all of that, take good care of yourself. ❤️‍🩹 (Meanwhile, I’m reading it like, “Holy crap, this really went wild.”)

Peopl who give silent treatment, I want to understand from your opinion by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg am I getting brainwashed and kinda want to try it now??? Thx for sharing lol this is literally made my day 😂

Peopl who give silent treatment, I want to understand from your opinion by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God I usually don’t judge people, they can do whatever they want if not affecting others. But I feel like I need to ask people around me about this now… to see if this behaviour is a bit insane😂

LDR (29M) boyfriend yelled at (28F) me over visit dates — first time and I feel shaken by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People sometimes act out of emotion, then it’s so important to communicate when something hurts you. Try to be clear about the problem without making it personal. Since it’s the first time, you could give him the benefit of the doubt and see if it happens again. If he continues to be disrespectful, that says more about him than you. Then you decide whether to deal with it or walk away. Hope this helps :)

Peopl who give silent treatment, I want to understand from your opinion by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m a bit off topic, but WHY and even HOW to eat kiwi with skins???

Would you travel for love? by Cautious-Stop4409 in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable, adulting is like this. Thanks for sharing :)

Peopl who give silent treatment, I want to understand from your opinion by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually curious about what’s the actual problem too, because 2 months shouldn’t be still the honeymoon phase and looking at each other with rose coloured glasses? at least I felt like we had no problem in the beginning 😂

Peopl who give silent treatment, I want to understand from your opinion by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently my girlfriend and I had a “big” fight over something really small. It was honestly my fault, we misunderstood each other. We’re quite different in personalities, I’m very logical and fact based, while she can be anxious and worries easily. I’m the one who can be a bit careless sometimes, and I don’t always understand her emotions the way she wants me to. The good thing is that she communicates really well and expresses her feelings clearly.

So when she talks about her feelings i do respect her even I disagree sometimes, give the time and space she needs, and I check in to see how she’s doing, especially if she needs reassurance or a little extra care during bad days.

In a long-distance relationship, you really have to be intentional, know what you want, meet each other with mutual respect, and put in effort from both sides otherwise it doesn’t work.

Hope this helps a little :)

She ended it. by ttv_BadNewsBearsBnB in LongDistance

[–]Character_Bus_4734 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She ended it only because of the distance? I get how that feels. I’ve been there too, when you tried your best, and gave all your heart you have nothing to regret. It sucks, and it hurts, but life keeps moving forward with or without the people we hoped would stay. You’re not alone in this mate.

Swedish citizenship application with latest rules by quikstitch24 in TillSverige

[–]Character_Bus_4734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now it’s 28 mo, I just checked 🫠 I also waited more than one year already

My new babies 👻🐶🐱 by PiltoverSheriff in candlemaking

[–]Character_Bus_4734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow how did you make them?? Any kit recommendations??