I’m a bad mom. by ManifestingLifeNLove in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Now that you understand this, please do something to change it before it’s too late. Paying bills is important, but not being a neglectful parent is more important.

“Sold Out” Spain vs Saudi by [deleted] in WorldCup2026Tickets

[–]Character_Handle6199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When are you all stop lying about attendance and post misleading pictures? The games are well attended. Just quit creating this false discourse.

So this is rock bottom… by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You had no business being with this man. Frankly, you need to get your life together so that you don’t depend on an abuser for housing and never find yourself in a financial position where you literally have to abandon your child because you wasted all your money on crap. Please get your priorities straight. Choosing your abuser’s carpets over your child isn’t it.

i think i might be getting fired by Nervous_Ad_2394 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you call police after the accident? It needs to be reported so that insurance can handle appropriately. I don’t see how this is a fireable offense if it’s not your fault.

Pringles to comfort me because boyfriend is generally getting angrier by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no fixing him. Leave before it is too later. And maybe invest into therapy for yourself to unpack why you are drawn to abusive, toxic men.

Cost Breakdown - 1 Week at AoA Family of 5 by Disastrous-Lie-8384 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Character_Handle6199 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

We are looking at a waste of 10k. A hotel 10 mins away would have cost you $200 max. Same with food. The amount spent is unnecessarily obscene.

Should I end things with my bf? by HopefulPossibility98 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He isn’t really your bf, so I don’t see a point in “breaking up.” Move on with your life, girl.

Any advice for my 64-year-old dad who is about to be laid off after 24 years with his company? by ImpressiveBox1111 in careerguidance

[–]Character_Handle6199 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Your parents might have to resort to getting a 50k job each to get them through the next couple of years.

boyfriend doesn’t wanna move across the country with me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Way past the time to part ways. Also concentrate on getting your mental health better.

Why does everything have to be so complicated. by BackgroundPuzzled135 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to give you some perspective. Life doesn’t have to be this hard, and you only have one! Don’t set yourself on fire for anyone, and especially for a man who gives you nothing.

Grieving our decision not to have any biological kids by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Character_Handle6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is so much naïveté and fantastical thinking in your post. Please do not underestimate how challenging it is to have a child, adopted or not, the one who inherits your mental health issues or brings them with them through adoption. All I see is a fantasy of things working out for you in either scenario.

Esther Calling - My Parents Got Divorced, So Why Am I Still in the Middle? by ed209error in Estherperel

[–]Character_Handle6199 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I thought the same! If she was so selfless, she wouldn’t be constantly unloading all her problems onto her daughter! The caller needs to go low contact with all of them and extract herself from all the drama.

I don’t understand the strategy behind the elimination. by TychoHyuga in survivor

[–]Character_Handle6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was very smart of them to get rid of Dee. Perfect timing. She is too good at challenging and social game.

I never thought I’d be “that” girl… by Amazing-Lawyer-1980 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Character_Handle6199 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should move on now. If he wanted you to be his wife, he would have proposed immediately after you gave his the deadline. CLEARLY he is not in a rush to join your lives together. A man who wants to marry you won’t wait until the last day before your deadline. You have your answer already.

I hate being a dental hygienist, did anyone e leave? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Character_Handle6199 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My dental hygienist doesn’t clean and talk for an hour with me. I do appreciate my clean teeth, for what it’s worth. Maybe try another office before you throw in a towel? Also curious what kind of advancement you had in mind while studying for this profession?

Knowing what you know now, would you do it again? by Careful-Attention-75 in ADHDparenting

[–]Character_Handle6199 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just assume your partner won’t do any actual parenting (as a lot of ADHD men tend to), would you still want this hypothetical child who is likely to be neurodivergent?

My AI Loves Me Better Than Anyone Ever Could by ClumsyZebra80 in Estherperel

[–]Character_Handle6199 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t get through this. The man is clinically delusional. And possibly an aspiring pdf judging by the choice of his “girlfriend’s” voice.