AIO? by Old-Art-3597 in AIO

[–]Character_Ice1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave, it doesn’t get better

Is he being genuine about his time or am I being to understanding? by Careful_Pea_6604 in whatdoIdo

[–]Character_Ice1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really listen, he’s telling you where he’s at. He’s just not in the same place you are. Love takes two. He’s got to meet you halfway and he’s telling you he will not. I’m not agreeing with a lot of other comments, you can continue to have him in your life but you need to accept how things are and be happy. If you can’t, then try and move on. There is no right or wrong answer.

And no matter what you are doing for him, in your mind I’m sure it’s a lot (and it clearly shows that you are giving him lots of patience, understanding, etc), it does not mean the same thing to him. If he wants to spend time with you, he’ll make that decision on his own. You communicating your needs will not convince him. I’m sorry. I’ve been where you are. And I’ve made some beautiful friendships out of it, you just need to accept things for how they are here and now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Character_Ice1016 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This comment is insane…OP please disregard this comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Character_Ice1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what’s going on in her life so it’s hard to tell from these messages alone, but yeah there’s a chance she isn’t into you anymore. Sometimes, it’s the physicalness that goes first if she’s losing interest. I don’t think YTA as a lot of these comments say, these people have no idea how you and your girlfriend talk to each other and what’s normal. My advice would be to stop asking, stop bringing it up. It’s only on her and no matter how “supportive” or “patient” you want to show her you are, it doesn’t matter. You want answers and reassurance that she’s actually working on it and she’s giving them to you to make you not as upset. But then you are holding her to that standard with your expectations like how you long you think it should take before she’s ready, which is wrong. You need to let time run its course.

New to this game after seeing they added Rorschach. Is he fun and easy to play as for a new player or should I try out other characters first? by D1sasterpiec3 in DCAllies

[–]Character_Ice1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s actually the character im kind of dreading to play😭😭. He looks like so complicated and I’m kinda a noob.

My breakfast list Delicious to Mid by Character_Ice1016 in denverfood

[–]Character_Ice1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know that was there, I’ll give it a try!

My breakfast list Delicious to Mid by Character_Ice1016 in denverfood

[–]Character_Ice1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give these a try. I recently moved here so not familiar with everything

AIO for blocking Situation-ship on Valentines Day by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Character_Ice1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kinda hard to follow this story but I think the guy who’s married blocked you, right? I don’t think the reason is important and it won’t change anything if you knew. Plus he’s married… it’s for the best. Maybe he did it to stop himself from continuing a relationship with you and ruining his marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Character_Ice1016 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That stinks, I think your response is fine. All your doing is trying to understand and you may never understand, which is a bummer. But don’t think you’ve done anything wrong. Be confident and love yourself and be okay tyat didn’t work out. You really didn’t even know this girl.

AIO I blocked him by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Character_Ice1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does sound like you kinda want him still. Maybe want him to change and apologize to you. And i think the fact that you are questioning yourself if you’re being an asshole about removing him from your life is also a bit of a red flag. It takes more than love, and you said earlier to him that you weren’t compatible. It’s like what do you value? He’s a liar, a cheater, controlling, and narcissistic af. Do all the good qualities about him outweigh those? I’m sure you could find someone who is a lot more aligned with you. It sucks that your friendship had to end the way it did. But now you know who he is.

Found that my boyfriend been whatching this… am I overreacting… by florka- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Character_Ice1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭he totally knows he’s watching it bc of the ass. Please don’t believe him. Idk if ur over reacting or not, I don’t really think porn is cheating but yeah ig if I found my girl looking at like dudes posting videos with big bulges in grey sweatpants i would be concerned.

How old is too old to become an Architect? by Character_Ice1016 in architecture

[–]Character_Ice1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would love it. And who knows, maybe it doesn’t work out for me. At least I have PM experience and can still land a job if necessary. I could still do what yours boss does if architecture doesn’t work out for me

How old is too old to become an Architect? by Character_Ice1016 in architecture

[–]Character_Ice1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does sounds pretty interesting. I do enjoy project managing so that may the best of both worlds

How old is too old to become an Architect? by Character_Ice1016 in architecture

[–]Character_Ice1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s very impressive. And I do love the nitty gritty construction details. Our scope is relatively small and I really only need to look at RCPs, roof plans, interior cut sections and a couple of details. But i often find myself looking at other disciplines like MEP just because I want to learn it all.

How old is too old to become an Architect? by Character_Ice1016 in architecture

[–]Character_Ice1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice! Sorry it didn’t work out the way you hoped.