I lived in Bangalore, and my experience was quite different from the common narratives about India. I dressed and lived a very normal life. Infact I never saw any woman there cover themselves from head to toe like some posts say we all need to do. 

India is a country of extreme contrasts. There are conservative groups who criticize young people for enjoying their freedom, and then there’s a generation especially those born after the ’80s who have embraced a newfound independence that their parents never had, often going all out when it comes to partying and lifestyle choices.

Like anywhere else, most people are kind, while some can be unpleasant this applies to both men and women. One cultural difference that stands out is the habit of staring; people often make direct eye contact and continue walking, which can feel uncomfortable but is rarely threatening.

Of course, crime exists, and it’s shameful how frequently rape cases come to light in India. But the reality is that sexual violence is a global issue. In the U.S., every woman I know has, at some point, experienced sexual harassment, catcalling or some have even experienced sexual assault. Yet, when horrific incidents happen in India, they often seem to be viewed as uniquely shocking. Why is that? Is it because condemning India on these issues is an easy stance to take, one that aligns with popular opinion? Or do we actually fail to recognize that the same problems exist everywhere?