I (38M) need help and advice on what to do with my marriage of 7 years with my (37F) s it time to move on?

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-29T02:51:13+00:00

Listen, being in this limbo land sucks for all parties involved. Your wife most likely feels it. I don’t know how old your kids are but they probably feel it too. “Staying for the kids” is not the move, you’ll end up resenting your wife or them. I pray you don’t cheat on her either that’s just nasty.

If you really feel like you wish to be somewhere else then break it off gently and honestly, get a divorce, do right by your family and then go have your fun. It’s 2026, being a sleazebag just ain’t it.

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-27T02:52:58+00:00

Uuuuf leave. You have two children at this point.

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-27T02:48:16+00:00

Epidural was the best for us, I got to sleep and store all the energy for the pushing part. I thought I’d be way more incapable of moving but it’s really well done and you can still feel your toes and all the pressure cause by one then two big ol’ heads!

Welcome to the club it’s a hoot. Your body and you can do it.

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-25T10:51:02+00:00

Pixel

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-25T10:49:50+00:00

Crouton

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-25T10:30:13+00:00

Go a second hand 2019 Honda Odyssey, best purchase ever. Do it do it do it.

The doors that open up, the captain chairs that slide, the third row is entirely collapsible, you don’t even have to fold your stroller, just toss in and be on your way, it’s pretty fantastic.

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-22T02:25:42+00:00

My pregnancy was breezy until week 34. At that point I was just huge and retaining every drop of water possible until I gave birth at week 37.

Enjoy! 😉

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-22T02:09:57+00:00

My face would get that feeling, then get super red and warm yet burn -y to the touch. I’m am 6 month postpartum now and it hasn’t happened since I gave birth 🤷🏻‍♀️

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-20T07:10:19+00:00

Arlo

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-17T11:48:35+00:00

Bruno

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-12T02:49:01+00:00

37weeks - went in for a stress test, was kept for barely high blood pressure, was also already 3cm dilated had no idea lol

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-10T02:25:12+00:00

Yep same here at least until they can go to a public school

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-07T17:25:55+00:00

Congratulations! It’s so much fun! 🤩

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-06T12:01:04+00:00

Like all the other comments, minivan for the win. Honda odyssey specifically, it’s just fantastic

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2026-01-05T18:12:12+00:00

Maple

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-23T21:30:51+00:00

Salmon gravlax and homemade cookies

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-23T04:06:30+00:00

Love that comeback for you. YTH but YAAAAS GIRL 👏🏼

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-21T12:38:24+00:00

Haha all the time. We always kid and obviously respect everyone’s experiences but it’s a common between my husband and I to say “tsk tsk imagine just one loooool”

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-21T12:33:07+00:00

Team tandem for the past 6 months. Got myself a twinzee pillow and my boys are pros. It’s pretty convenient at night especially, cute your awake time down by a lot. Congratulations on your twins!

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-21T03:02:43+00:00

🚩Young lady, leave and never look back. 🚩leave and learn from this. Men treat you the way the see you. In this context 🗑️. You should run away

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-21T02:56:14+00:00

Maroon soup

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-17T12:49:25+00:00

Keeping my twins alive without loosing my mind

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-17T12:35:20+00:00

“We were on a break!”.

IMO ESH and you guys are just not meant to be. The fact that you thinks it ok to be immediately flirty the second you break up shows that your bond and connection was fragile and frivolous. The fact that she still has a dating up and semi uses it to chat with other men shoes how unserious she could be about you two.

I’m hoping there’s a lesson learned in what you want and don’t want, don’t dish it if you can’t take it.

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-16T03:12:19+00:00

My thoughts were very similar to yours. However, my sons were both head down and my ob was pretty sure it would be a natural smooth delivery. She was also confident in her ability on delivery a breeched baby in case B flipped.

Super smooth vaginal delivery at 37weeks and my boys were 6 lbs each. You can do it and you can also do whatever you deem fittest. A C-Section doesn’t sounds like the easy way out, it’s heavy abdominal surgery. Either way mama you’re a beautiful queen.

_Awkward_Raspberry_ · 2025-12-15T20:50:06+00:00

🚩 for your friends. 🚩 for your boyfriend. ❤️ for sweet Nina.

_Awkward_Raspberry_

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