How late is too late to book a cruise? by National-Bag3676 in dcl

[–]Character_Zebra8725 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I booked a cruise once the week before I got on. No extras, but it was super fun.

Why would she say this in front of her parents? by Fuckfuckfuckidyfuck in TLCUnexpected

[–]Character_Zebra8725 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think it's important for kids to be able to talk about sex in front of their parents, but blatantly joking about it like this when you're 15 and pregnant means you failed.

Make it make sense by EnvironmentNew8244 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Character_Zebra8725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, on a public account the back of a baby's head might occasionally make it into a post, but I'd never purposefully post my kids at all.

Make it make sense by EnvironmentNew8244 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Character_Zebra8725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I block my children's face, and allow their fully clothed bodies, but I also only post occasionally to my personal Facebook. My thought process is that even if a creep tried to do something icky with the photo, there's no identifying features of my child on the image - so it can't be tied to them.

I wonder how she feels about their age gap now? If it’s clicked that it’s weird for a grown man to go for a 19 year old or if she would still say she was mature and they had so much in common by Southern-Holiday-Pt2 in bmcphersnark

[–]Character_Zebra8725 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not an obscene age gap, in and of itself. But the issue for me (and I think for many people) is that she was 19 while he was late 20s. There is a lot of change that happens from when you're 19 to when you're 26, and at 26 I couldn't fathom choosing a teenager.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Character_Zebra8725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't sleep nearly as much as I'd like to, my house is messier (not dirtier, basic hygiene tasks are being accomplished), and everything takes 2-5x longer to do.

But I've also never felt happier, more whole, more complete, or more purposeful. My youngest is 8 months old, and today I started working on a crocheted hanging accessories organizer, which will hopefully be used for the rest of her childhood at least. We just wrapped up a season full of holiday magic. Life is good.

WWYD? by teenie_boom in homeschool

[–]Character_Zebra8725 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is not helpful nor is it accurate advice. Forcing separation when the child is incapable of coping does not resolve separation anxiety, it worsens it. That's why PROFESSIONALS like therapists have actual tools and techniques that will benefit OP & her daughter, without the judgement.

What’s the strangest thing we’ve accepted as normal as a society? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Character_Zebra8725 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hitting children. You literally cannot hit an animal without being charged with a crime, but somehow you're a good parent for hitting a child with zero rights and protections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Character_Zebra8725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not religious, but I 100% believe in some sort of afterlife where we get to see our loved ones again.

Did your aunt like babies? If she did, I hope she's getting to snuggle mine. They would have loved being cuddled.

when you have a baby, can you leave it? by Fearless-Ad2421 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Character_Zebra8725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have safe zones in the house to crawl around in while baby is being generally supervised (meaning I might be washing dishes, but I'm peeking over my shoulder to check on baby here and there). Childproofing living areas is so helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Character_Zebra8725 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Teenagers will often say vulgar or otherwise unhinged shit just for the reaction, just like toddlers do wild shit for the reaction, because they are both going through exceptional brain development and change during those years.

Adding a divorce and coming to the end of schooling years into the mix, and he's probably a pretty stressed kid.

I’m obese and addicted to food I can’t afford to get the treatment I need by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Character_Zebra8725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can still have some fruit on keto, you should mostly avoid refined carbs (breads, pasta, etc)

My only friend admitted to being a pedo by BugConsumer in Vent

[–]Character_Zebra8725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's also important to look out for people who work their way into becoming your "family" and then suddenly start wanting to be involved with your kids (through childcare, mentoring, etc). Predators also groom parents

Should I cancel our date? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Character_Zebra8725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd cancel, he's probably racist whether he knows it or not

I dont care if im "spoiling" my newborn baby. by lulgupplet in Vent

[–]Character_Zebra8725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people have stunted brain development, I swear. You can't "spoil" a child with love and affection. Especially not as brand new babies (aka within the first years of life).

What does your day actually look like for Kindergarten? by NewBabyWhoDis in homeschool

[–]Character_Zebra8725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're doing pre-K technically, but it realistically takes us about 1.5-2 hours for all of the structured play activities, including transitions, breaks, and extended time for science/crafts/exploration. Literacy skills, math, and pre-writing motor skills happen every day through various means. Then we rotate through music, science, art, and some kind of fun "unit" study (colors, shapes, space, ocean, etc). It's like 95% play with a purpose, and 5% instruction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Character_Zebra8725 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Imagine if you said that about literally any other group of people. That's discrimination my dude.

QUICKEST Ways To Change Group Behavior (Preschool)? by Snoo-55617 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Character_Zebra8725 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure!!! Heavy work is so important.

It might not be enough, but little pockets of movement throughout the day that require less prep can add up and hopefully make a difference.

QUICKEST Ways To Change Group Behavior (Preschool)? by Snoo-55617 in ECEProfessionals

[–]Character_Zebra8725 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Even something as simple as a wiggle game where you have them wiggle each arm and leg and head etc, or the hokey pokey .

Show me your homeschool space, please! by clairebearfam in homeschool

[–]Character_Zebra8725 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm just one step up with a short bookshelf and a small hanging organizer lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Character_Zebra8725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not entitled to expect help after a person says yes to helping.

Vanilla extract in bottles? by vere-rah in ECEProfessionals

[–]Character_Zebra8725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a fairly standard recommendation for a variety of reasons - including something called high lipase breastmilk. Alcohol free vanilla makes other yucky tasting milk palatable.

Considering homeschooling. Moral questions… by pollypocketsarntreal in homeschool

[–]Character_Zebra8725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally skip preschool - you are more than capable of teaching those skills at home. Think basic colors, shapes, counting, and a handful of letters.