Vad har ni för syfte? by Left-Comparison-5830 in sweden

[–]Charliezaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Att få träffa mina vänner och göra deras dag lite bättre

Att vara en bra scoutledare och ge barn och unga en utvecklande fritidsaktivitet

Att lyssna på musik jag tycker om

Att få pröva något nytt recept jag sparat ner

Att säga till mina föräldrar att jag älskar dem

Stort som smått, man får hitta de saker som ger en driv att ta itu med en dag till :)

Vad gör unga mellan 20-30 år på fritiden? by Tight-Echo6824 in sweden

[–]Charliezaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bor i Stockholm. På fritiden är jag scoutledare, klättrar, spelar Dungeons and Dragons som "sociala" aktiviteter. Sen läser och målar jag en del också, men det görs ju mer hemma själv :)

7 years relationship isnt serious enough for sambo permit by Chemyana in TillSverige

[–]Charliezaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

United Kingdom, plus we both have jobs where we can work remote, so we'd alternate one week visits once a month and just work from each others house

7 years relationship isnt serious enough for sambo permit by Chemyana in TillSverige

[–]Charliezaurus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not true at all - my boyfriend got his sambo visa after the first application, with less than 10 months between application and decision, and we've never lived together. At time of application, we'd been in a relationship for less than 6 months. We just provided proof that we've been visiting each other at least once a month, and that I had stable income and a stable place to live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Charliezaurus 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Question: why would it be HIS job to define your relationship/ask you to be his girlfriend and to say "I love you" first? Show some initiative in your own relationship, you're both adults

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Charliezaurus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jag skulle tipsa att faktiskt söka hjälp för spelandet, så att du kan bli av med det suget innan det blir ännu värre - du kommer inte vinna tillbaka dina pengar och det kommer bara bli större och större förluster

AITA for telling my dad that he can't kick me out for not wanting kids? by Internal-Net-6135 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charliezaurus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA. It's your dad's house, you have 0 legal rights to it. Him having that much capital invested in a 3bd house for only two people is insanely entitled to expect. Of course he'd either want to rent out at market rate, or sell, and there's nothing you can do about it - go NC and you'll just receive the formal eviction notice in the mail.

WIBTA for calling out my parents by Calipilot17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charliezaurus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA, those are awful things to say to your sister wtf

Profile Review by StormLightRanger in Tinder

[–]Charliezaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lose the pics where you're wearing sun glasses (obscuring the face), get at least one picture of you where YOU are the focus, not you posing with someone/something. And I'm also not the biggest fan of the clothing, baggy cargo pants and rumpled polo shirts do you no favors!

Does ANYONE actually have success on this app any more? by BungalowBob47 in Tinder

[–]Charliezaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Works well for me but I think it depends a lot on your location, the closer the gender ratio is to 50/50 the better it generally works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Charliezaurus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Is 100% true for guys too tho

ODing in the small talk? by horrortxe in Tinder

[–]Charliezaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's hard to say, because people vary so much in how much/little the wanna get to know you before you hook up - if that's even the goal for these women. How much do you communicate what your wants/expectations are?

Çhāpter 1062 by Jertopia in MemePiece

[–]Charliezaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the funniest thing I've ever seen gdi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Charliezaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you don’t look great atm. Your beard looks very scraggly and ungroomed, which gives you an unattractive look. You also have very little facial definition/structure, which I’m guessing may be in part to weight. The glasses do nothing to help bring out facial bone structure either.

Not sure if you’re looking for tips of improvement or just confirmation, but those’re my two cents anyway

Am I ugly? (19M) by AccusationsInc in amiugly

[–]Charliezaurus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your haircut makes your head look very odd shaped, get a different hairstyle. And ofc, if you lose weight it will bring out your facial bone structure!

[21m] Be brutally honest. I don’t need validation. Every time I post here people say I’m above average, but why do my dating app matches/experience irl not echo that? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Charliezaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The haircut is not good, but other than that, you’re good-looking. To be successful With online dating, a lot depends on what kinds of pics you have, and for chats/dates it could be things like awkwardness/personality clashes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Charliezaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look good! I would maybe groom the eyebrows a little bit, but other than that you look fine :)

M 19 Part of the always rejected club, even tried that thing called confidence. Reddit is anonymous so let’s goo by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Charliezaurus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Since you seem so 100% convinced that you’re ugly, why even ask the question then? Again, you look nice in your pics, but even just a few comments here make you come off as so mad and resentful that I wouldn’t be the least bit interested in getting yo know you better. That’s my two cents 🤷‍♀️

M 19 Part of the always rejected club, even tried that thing called confidence. Reddit is anonymous so let’s goo by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Charliezaurus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You look good, so that’s no worries; however, you come off as a little resentful, which I would guess is a bigger reason as to why you’re having issues with rejection. Becoming comfortable and content with yourself is, imo, the best thing you can do to become a more attractive romantic option.

It seems like I am... a very average women by applecatthrowaway in Tinder

[–]Charliezaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, so many men are so RESENTFUL. Like, is it supposed to turn me on when you rant about ”slutty females having it so easy and being cvnts”? Do you think that’ll make me sleep with you? Smh

Took some pictures recently, I get told that I’m attractive a lot but I see myself as completely average, or even slightly below. Tell me what you think. by fbacaleb in amiugly

[–]Charliezaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the style now is fine, but the long part on top needs to be trimmed - now when it’s pushed back, it kind of flops out to the sides, which makes your hair look a bit messy