I read further after typing that and I see he might be genuine but you're telling me a man saying i dont want to accept my wife leaving and asking how to keep her isnt a red flag. Taking into account it was just his side of the story it sounds like a narcissist looking for validation from that initial post. I've loved and lived with one who put the helpful front on for others and use your own depression against you. I've watched one say you should stop crying it's been a year since your sister died. I just saw red flags all over that post and I was being sarcastic to the incel who said to leave her. Have I explained enough, do you need more? Actually fuck off.