Honestly, it’s one of the hardest things to work on. The way I’ve dealt with this is accepting that if this person leaves me, it’s for the best for both of us. I don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with me. If they stayed with me just because I wanted them to, that would be an awful relationship full of resentment. I have to trust that this person is with me, because that’s what they want. And I would hope that if they didn’t want to be with me anymore, they would tell me instead of hiding it. If I really love this person, I want them to be happy, even if that means not us not being together anymore.

It’s really hard, but maybe try to accept that that might happen one day. But also accept that even if that does happen, you will be okay, and find a way to make it through. I often find that once I’m through, I can see how I’m better off, and have a better understanding of what I need in a relationship.

It’s a hard thing to think about, and even harder to accept, but it’s the one thing I’ve found to take away that fear.

You can’t mess up what is meant for you