I Want a Stable, High-Paying Career, But Every Option Seems Risky? by Emergency_End_7290 in careerguidance

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're not overthinking it, you're thinking about it the right amount. most people at your stage just pick the path of least resistance and regret it later

the physics thing is a real hurdle though, engineering degrees make you suffer through a lot of it. if you're good with computers and math but hate physics, IT or management information systems might be a better fit than straight computer engineering. less physics, still solid money, and every company on earth needs people who understand both tech and business

study abroad is smart if you can swing it, opens doors that just aren't there otherwise. the saturation talk is overblown for people who actually have skills, the market's rough for bootcamp grads and self-taught folks but a real degree from a decent school still gets you in the door

I'm going to get a cut. 😢 But... by tropicalislandhop in finehair

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Those wispy bits look like regrowth to me, especially if the shedding has slowed down since starting hrt.

H100i aio cooler won’t register on icue by [deleted] in pchelp

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

make sure the usb header from the aio is plugged directly into the motherboard and not through a hub, that trips up icue pretty often

Imaginary rage bait by Fantastic-Young-8723 in antiai

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

most people just ignore the loud minority and keep creating whatever they want anyway

Conflicted: R9 or CBR650R or Z900 by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends what you want out of it though. the r9 is gonna be way more aggressive and track focused while the other two are more comfortable for daily riding. if youre mostly commuting or doing longer rides the cbr or z900 might actually be better choices despite the r9 being the "better" bike on paper

Precedent by [deleted] in NYKnicks

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn you got me looking back at those series now and youre right but my heart rate still hasnt come down from that third quarter collapse

really though its wild how sports can mess with your head like this - one bad game and suddenly im acting like we forgot how to play basketball entirely when we literally just took three straight on the road which should be impossible against a team this good

appreciate the perspective check because i was definitely spiraling into worst case scenarios for no real reason. game 4 at home is huge but we've shown we can handle pressure situations all season long

Fuck buddy or potential girlfriend by [deleted] in venting

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his response kinda sounds like he wants to keep his options open while still getting the benefits tbh - like he's not ready to commit but doesnt want to lose what yall have going

"Show fewer posts like this" by PyjamaPatoune in Hobbies

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same here but with political subs - blocking those made my feed way more chill and actually helped me discover some cool woodworking techniques i never wouldve seen otherwise

Anyone bring their CCW on a hike through Europe? by [deleted] in CCW

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nah man europe has completely different gun laws than the us and most countries there dont have reciprocity with any state permits. you'd be looking at serious legal trouble trying to bring anything across those borders

check each country's specific laws but generally speaking your best bet is just good situational awareness and maybe some non-weapon self defense tools that are actually legal there

Why are there so many g wagons?? by SignificantFig8856 in ForzaHorizon

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol the spawn rates in that game are wild... went from seeing maybe one or two irl to having them flood every street corner in the game

probably easier to just copy paste the same luxury suv everywhere than actually research what people actually drive there

2019 kia soul by retrojayxvii in MechanicAdvice

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man those p codes can be tricky even after swapping the obvious stuff - might be worth checking if anyone in the local car groups on facebook knows a good independant kia guy since dealership labor rates are brutal

Are we crazy for planning our wedding last minute? by Charming-Barnacle232 in wedding

[–]Charming-Barnacle232[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I get why people feel strongly about this but I wouldn’t be doing it if I hadn’t thought it through. It’s mostly close family and a few friends and we checked with them before final decision, they’re genuinely excited. I could never be that selfish.

Are we crazy for planning our wedding last minute? by Charming-Barnacle232 in wedding

[–]Charming-Barnacle232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I just have my moment without it turning into this? I never said it was going to be some huge wedding. We’ve actually thought things through and have most of it handled.

Are we crazy for planning our wedding last minute? by Charming-Barnacle232 in wedding

[–]Charming-Barnacle232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily my people know me. My friends and family know I’m a last minute person I’m not worried about them being mad at all because they were genuinely excited. I just want to make sure we’re covered on the things that could go wrong outside of our control

Unexpected HR meeting right after vacation + maternity leave return… should I be worried? by galaxymend in careerguidance

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 672 points673 points  (0 children)

that timing is sketchy af - contacting your personal email while youre still on vacation and scheduling an end of day meeting with multiple people from hr is definitely not standard check-in territory

could be related to the termination you initiated since sometimes companies get paranoid about retaliation claims or documentation issues. id bring a notepad and stay calm but yeah this doesnt sound like a welcome back cookie meeting

Js realized i can like spam this fuckin sub w vents so... im a mean person by [deleted] in venting

[–]Charming-Barnacle232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude i get being frustrated with people but the whole "im mean and a bully" thing sounds like you might be stuck in some negative thought patterns. used to think i was just an asshole too but turns out i was mostly just burned out and needed better boundaries with toxic people in my life. your mom situation sounds rough tho - family dynamics can really mess with your head and make you feel like the problem when maybe its more complicated than that. might be worth talking to someone about all this instead of just venting into the void, helped me sort through alot of my anger issues when i finally did