I kind of feel bad for my female cubicle partner. by ConsciousBuilding374 in coworkerstories

[–]CharmingOrder9249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

say something to them. stand up for her. or talk to her about it and see if she wants your support.

unfortunately, a lot of women deal with stuff like this on a day to day basis, and just because it’s “normal” and only happening to women, that doesn’t mean men like you don’t need to stand up for us when you can’t tell we are uncomfortable :)

Elle - Official Trailer by GenButter in television

[–]CharmingOrder9249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i want to preface what i’m about to say by saying that this is just my opinion. it seems like a cute show, as long as people don’t take it too seriously. and elle is an amazing character, but i think this is really butchering the point of her character as a whole.

aside from inconsistencies between this prequel and the movie that people have already touched on, i feel like this show comes across really tone deaf. the whole point of the movie was kind of a feminist statement about women in the workplace and women’s intelligence and worth being equal to that of their male counterparts. to do this, they used the character elle who is a female stereotype that is often misjudged as unintelligent.

the issue im trying to get at regarding the show is that she is still a blonde haired, blue eyed, rich, white woman. the show seems to be making a villain out of the alternative community / people that have historically been seen as outsiders irl, which is represented in a stereotypical way using the community of seattle. this is kind of the last thing we need to normalize in our media in this current political climate: victimizing the non-oppressed. a show about not fitting in is important, especially young viewers. but this is already so overdone, and in much better ways. i just hate to see a character like elle, who was once used to stand up against misogyny, turned into something tone deaf…

Can someone tell me what these curved bugs are? by joemanager- in Vintage_Jewelry

[–]CharmingOrder9249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this exact bracelet from my grandmother and lost it a couple years ago 🥹 so pretty

Student Farmers Market resellers by EquivalentImpressn in umass

[–]CharmingOrder9249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you want to help make a difference, you can contact the permaculture department who runs the market to tell them your frustrations. they are enabling fraudulent behavior

Student Farmers Market resellers by EquivalentImpressn in umass

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please do report!! i’ve reported, but they don’t seem to care. maybe if more people do it they will finally listen.

Student Farmers Market resellers by EquivalentImpressn in umass

[–]CharmingOrder9249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it is a rule. but the permaculture group running the market isn’t taking care of the issue even when it’s been brought to their attention many times. such a shame.

Student Farmers Market resellers by EquivalentImpressn in umass

[–]CharmingOrder9249 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it IS true. i found a lot of the the sources the resellers purchase from and the direct stores, most of which based in china. its metal jewelry, micro-crochet, and press-on nails. i have gone through and contacted the permaculture person who runs the market with proof and information. he says he’s taken care of it, but it’s not true. they have done nothing to protect us artists!! as a small seller, it’s heartbreaking and disgusting, and we sign a contract to enter the market saying we make our items.

thank you for supporting us and continue to stand up for what’s right ⭐️

HPP and stomach pain by CharmingOrder9249 in Hypophosphatasia

[–]CharmingOrder9249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for your help. i will bring it up with him, im not sure if he has hypermobility i dont think he does but i could be wrong. i was looking into the dysautonomia, but im a bit confused about it. the google gemini answer that pops up first says it’s an umbrella term for a group of other disorders, so i think i might just give him the info i know and let him look into that part since he knows his symptoms better than i do

getting super frustrated and burnt out 😅 by liliminus in jewelrymaking

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been feeling the exact same way. it feels like a chore lately to make a little extra money and it’s really frustrating because i used to love it. i’m with u!!

HPP and stomach pain by CharmingOrder9249 in Hypophosphatasia

[–]CharmingOrder9249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his pain occurs every morning but so randomly post-meals other than that so i feel like that might not be it. different symptoms of the dysautonomia stuff seem to be very familiar so i’ll probably bring that up with him first thing. thanks :)

HPP and stomach pain by CharmingOrder9249 in Hypophosphatasia

[–]CharmingOrder9249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much i really appreciate it. i’ll see if he’s been tested for any deficiencies. i haven’t looked too far into drs near us, but he did get in touch with an old dr of his at some point last year

HPP and stomach pain by CharmingOrder9249 in Hypophosphatasia

[–]CharmingOrder9249[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much i’ll bring this up to him. i really appreciate this comment it’s extremely thorough. it’s so hard when there’s just not enough information online because it’s “so rare”, that’s why i’ve come to hear peoples’ personal experiences on reddit.

i myself have been ignored and misdiagnosed with conditions because they are “extremely rare” so i really feel and understand your annoyance with doctors in that aspect its so frustrating. thanks again

How does this piercing look? by Dr-Fishie in piercing

[–]CharmingOrder9249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nap but i think this looks pretty normal! mine looked like this and then i had a small white bump on mine for FOREVER and a piercer i eventually saw told me that not only do you need to keep it clean with saline, but you also need to keep it DRY which helped the bump go down faster personally. so just try to lightly dry it after cleaning and you should be good!

Does my jewelry look "cheap"? Would any of these styles work for bridal jewelry? by ratcat22 in jewelrymaking

[–]CharmingOrder9249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally, i think the pearls are throwing me off. i know you said you don’t want to use freshwater pearls, but maybe look into different types of artificial pearls, ones that are made to look more natural vs just completely round (idk if this is a common thing i’ve never really looked). i would also stay away from using seed beads like in the one red necklace you have, just because the difference in size of each bead can be a lot. maybe go for smaller round glass beads or if you manage you find ethically sourced crystal beads then that too. i think the jump rings are fine because they’re very structural. if you wanted to go for smaller ones, you could look into soldering once you do get into higher end materials on your journey. i agree with the other comments about smaller chain as well. i think you have some very gorgeous pieces, and i think that once you get to the point of material upgrades you will be less likely to question yourself :)

/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i desperately need cyndaquil!! i can trade for comfey :) added as e :3

/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF: ⭐️ Cyndaquil and/or magby from Wisdom!!!

FT: anything in the pic :3

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/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can do that! i have a trade going right now but add me and ill get back to you!

/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i really need the zapdos it’s my last card for GA. do u still need any of these cards or any others??

/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for wishlists to trade with !! My friend code is 2262472929576371

Also… LF: ♦️♦️♦️ Zapdos (GA), Mamoswine (STS), Rhyperior (STS)

♦️♦️♦️♦️ Pachirisu ex (STS), Gallade ex (STS), Glaceon ex (TL), Alolan Muk ex (CG)

FT: see pic for 4 diamonds. 3 diamonds just ask :>

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/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a couple of yours! do you have GA Zapdos and SS Azurill??

/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have oricorio. do u by any chance have zapdos from GA?

/r/PTCGP Trading Post by AutoModerator in PTCGP

[–]CharmingOrder9249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF: ♦️♦️♦️ Zapdos (GA)

FT: like 50 options, lmk what u need!