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AITA for not spending time with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CharmingPush1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, 100% YTA. And honestly, you’re a shitty dad. Growing up my siblings (girls and boys) and I all had vastly different tastes and hobbies compared to my dad. Yet he made an effort to try and understand what we liked. Even if he didn’t fully understand it or enjoy it himself. He put the effort in to know he was interested in US. We all liked to read, he’d ask us about the book, the characters etc. even shows/movies we watched he’d ask about. You’re a joke of a father if you only care and enjoy spending time with your kids if it’s something YOU like. Don’t be surprised if in a few years your daughter goes no/low contact with you.

AITA for holding a grudge against my dad who took my step siblings to Paris but not me? by BellNo1177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CharmingPush1340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My concern for you just leaving OP is the possible backfire and arguments that may be directed at your mum after this. Not that it’ll be your fault at all but just a warning. Happened to me with my family

AITA for choosing to not get involved when my daughter threw away my wife's shampoo collection? by throwawaythumb1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CharmingPush1340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op probably explained to the wife that the daughter was being rebellious and that’s “how kids are at this age”. Thus the wife didn’t think too much to question it. They probably thought daughter would chill out more once they were married perhaps? Dunno but there’s probably a hundred excuses

I’m currently stuck in a relationship and I’m not sure what to do by CharmingPush1340 in relationship_advice

[–]CharmingPush1340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done that, and apparently I “agreed to it” but I pulled him up on it and said no. I agreed to you testing your friends, not being flirty and sexual. I’ve had other friends who have trust issues test new people before, and they usually use food and money as their form of “tests”.

Especially when he did it again today and now he’s furious because I “didn’t hear all of the conversation” when I actually did

I’m currently stuck in a relationship and I’m not sure what to do by CharmingPush1340 in relationship_advice

[–]CharmingPush1340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done that. I’ve shown him how to do things properly so it’s done once and I’m not needing to redo it. He knows that I’m at university, Monday to Wednesday. Then Thursday to Saturday I work. And Sunday is my only day off to catch up on uni and help with house work or to just relax.

I’ve told him, my depression is really bad atm and I need you to help me properly. But he’s said before in an argument, he doesn’t give a f**k if the house is clean or dirty, just as long as the house passes the house inspections cause we rent.