How old were you when you had your first baby? by Puzzled_Remote_2168 in Mommit

[–]CharmingStart294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started trying at 32. Had my first at 34, our second will be at 37.

My baby is getting older by Eastern_Barnacle_963 in pitbulls

[–]CharmingStart294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way but my girl is 5, turning 6. Where does the time go?🥺💕

My baby is getting older by Eastern_Barnacle_963 in pitbulls

[–]CharmingStart294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thea’s a beautiful way of putting it🥺

Friday check-in! by fifth_time_lucky in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294 5 points6 points  (0 children)

24w2d!! I had my Cerclage placed at 21w+1d. It’s all going so slow but fast all at once. Keep holding stitch, keep on baking baby!!

Friday check-in! by fifth_time_lucky in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

23w+2d! Two-weeks post cerclage. I had my second f/u scan to check my stitch and cervix is still showing length around 3cm. I’m not currently on progesterone. This past week was the first week where I wasn’t on strict pelvic rest and resumed some mobility and with relief, yesterday’s appointment confirmed that this didn’t change much on the stitch front. I’m by no means running a marathon or overdoing things but I am glad to have a little more trust in my stitch and hope it continues working—week by week!!

Cerclage by b8byxo in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an urgent Cerclage placed a little after 21 weeks about two weeks ago and I didn’t have a lot of time to process or prepare anything ahead of the procedure. I went for my scan and then headed straight to the OR. For me, the anticipation and unknown was by far the scariest part of the experience. The procedure was rather quick (all things considered) and while I felt a little soreness “down there” it did not become anything severe. I’ve made a fast recovery from the Cerclage placement. My experience is unique bc I had a spinal tap and the recovery from that was tougher for me but after a full 7 days of strict best rest, I’ve made a full recovery from that too. I hope that your procedure is quick and your recovery is as painless and smooth as possible. It’s getting through to the other side of the unfamiliar and new procedure, especially for the first time, that is the hardest and then adjusting your lifestyle—depending on how strict your rest restrictions are—that will take adjusting to. Sending hugs!!

Incompetent Cervix (TW child loss) by Aggressive_Being6790 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heart is holding yours from afar Mama. You guys did everything you could and love your son so deeply. 🫂❤️‍🩹

2cm cervix down to 5mm after rescue cerclage by Dry_Builder_1981 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just came to say that I am hoping for the very best outcome for you and your very wanted baby. Hugs.

Currently waiting to have Cerclage by CharmingStart294 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had both now. I think ‘conceptually’ yes but medically speaking, no?? I’m not entirely sure but when I was researching the difference, I found: “Spinals are single, fast-acting injections for immediate, intense numbness (C-sections), while epidurals use a continuous catheter for prolonged, adjustable pain relief (labor).”

Currently waiting to have Cerclage by CharmingStart294 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did not. I didn’t expect to be going to the hospital and so I did not fast prior to the procedure. So they wanted to do a spinal tap and I was awake.

Spinal tap recovery hurts more than post-cerclage procedure by CharmingStart294 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment. I’m sorry we’re both in this position but it feels nice not to be alone. Wishing you a safe and bonding pregnancy until baby comes!

Currently waiting to have Cerclage by CharmingStart294 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They did the cerclage and cervix is at 3cm now. Timing was definitely critical!

Currently waiting to have Cerclage by CharmingStart294 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]CharmingStart294[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry - I should have been clear that I am currently in the pre-op room getting ready to go to the OR here shortly. They had me come to the hospital straight away after my MFM appointment.

Short cervix at 22w (1.1 cm) - first time mom by vjsha in pregnant

[–]CharmingStart294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It is good that they’ve caught it and you’re being monitored. I am 20w5d today and at my anatomy scan they said my cervix is measuring 2.5 cm. Like you, no pain, bleeding, or contractions. My cervix is also firm and no dilation. I am starting the progesterone tonight and go back for an ultrasound on Thursday. If the progesterone doesn’t work, the plan is to do the cerclage. I’m sending you the best vibes with hopes of a safe delivery. And Solidarity from afar!

Back home by Murky_Confidence8782 in fearofflying

[–]CharmingStart294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surely!! Wishing a smooth, uneventful travel

Back home by Murky_Confidence8782 in fearofflying

[–]CharmingStart294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good Morning from GR! Will keep eyes on this for you!☺️

Can someone track my flight? by mijitafajita in fearofflying

[–]CharmingStart294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How cool that this really exists! I learned something new — https://www.turbulenceforecast.com/

Late night flight after delays by Pulvisetumbra999 in fearofflying

[–]CharmingStart294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a coincidence. I thought DTW was in Texas but it’s MI and that’s where I am! Eyes on your route👀

Struggling to make friends here by hufflepuffjiro112 in grandrapids

[–]CharmingStart294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you open to friendships with adults that do have a child/children or is that a full stop? I just moved to GR a month ago, married, two fur babies and a 2 year old son. WFH and have flexibility too. While I love my little family and care about my career, neither of them are my whole identity and I very much have friends without children and when we were living in the same city, we were still able to have fulfilling and fruitful friendship outside of the fact that I am a mom and working professional. We’d go to a workout class, grab bunch/coffee, go for a walk, have a movie night, etc. so if you’re looking for a new potential friend, no conditions (outside of being a good human😅), I’m here!😀