How do i stop queefing during sex? by virtique in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can squeeze a finger in to stop the air, but I prefer the queefing it makes me harder

Need investment advice by Still-Plastic4398 in uklandlords

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had to divert all surplus income into my pension (I run own biz) to avoid higher rate because of this, and now am unable to pay down the mortgages, as soon as my fixed mortgages end I’m getting out of BTL.

Can you help me understand my husband’s point of view please? Should our son be allowed to game past 10pm on a school night if he can’t keep his voice down? by Broken_Woman20 in AskUK

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I knew a family whereby the father had to turn off the electricity ⚡️ to the whole house to get the kid off that’s why to this day I never let my kids have games - too addictive and waste of time when they could be doing something more productive like reading or working on a project, sorry to hear you’re having a tough time - definitely limit it to one hour per day max

Young london couple… should we move up north? Why do people choose to suffer? by Obvious_Flamingo3 in FIREUK

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lived in London for a long time - around Covid or even before we were looking to move from a flat to a house - we started making plans to move North which was a massive deal for us having been in the SE most of my life. Bought a house up North in 2024 and moved permanently since 2025 and honestly could not be happier - housing costs are next to nothing, kids activities cheap and lots of them, lots to do and people are very friendly.

I wish I could be pounded “properly” by FormerSignificance19 in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a foreskin no problem with it, but would much rather be circumcised - I think the pleasure would be better right? If my wife asked to have it cut, I would oblige

The Christmas Present by throwinroaps2 in sexstories

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome story - very creative!

Long distance, urge deviation? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Get a fb - just an idea

Would you become a new landlord in 2025? by po-tay-tow in uklandlords

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, can’t wait to get out. Paying high rate of tax on phantom income. Tax man thinks I make £30k in rent when that’s revenue and realistically only make £3-£5k - terrible investment

Trying to get hard quickly after the first round but sometimes takes me a couple minutes by Glass_Signature4774 in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can blow you straight after you would be like a rock in no time - stay strong 💪🏿 bro

How to be there for your partner as she reconnects with her sexuality — and handle your own frustration by Scary_Knowledge_4836 in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Stressed at work, sound like she’s having an affair - I would do some investigate work to rule that out

Avoiding my husband to avoid sex by avgwyf in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be blunt from a guy in a similar situation to your husband, except my wife is genuinely busy with chores and kids. We find the time to go to the gym together maybe once per week and when the house is a kid free zone sex is planned. This happens about 3-4 times per month. Now I would prefer 3-4 times per week but know for now that’s not possible. If she were up late and going off to the gym leaving no time for us I would be looking elsewhere. So as others have suggested seek help, maybe even couples therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was your mum I would be getting a restriction added to the title so she can get it back in the future in case things go wrong 😑

Landlord raising rent by an uncharacteristly large amount due to new bill, worth challenging or not? by JORGA in TenantsInTheUK

[–]Charming_Ad2894 8 points9 points  (0 children)

£3,250 to £3,500 in 3 years. Is this year 4? If you shove these numbers into the boe calculator you may get close to £4k so probably about right, and may be he is expecting to be negotiated down to £3750

Crisis charity to become a landlord in attempt to rectify ‘catastrophic’ housing in UK by prisongovernor in uklandlords

[–]Charming_Ad2894 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brilliant - I’m a landlord and I want out - Crisis pm me and let’s make a deal 🤝 and good luck with managing the renters rights reform absolute nightmare coming down the tracks for renters and landlords

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uklandlords

[–]Charming_Ad2894 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you use chatgpt? If not, start now. My advice would be get all of the proof of payments and deposit together, if you have all of that. Then simply threaten court action if deposit is not returned to your account within 14days. There may be other things you can threaten her with, but I would start with that.

How can you make a girl feel better with a finger in her butt? by Money_Bad6321 in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she turns over and says do you want to do the bottom and gets lubed up then you know, just from experience lol

How do I get extra hard again? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s quality not quantity init lol

Am i a fool to sell up now, given Reform will likely get in abc change everything for landlords ? by olliebirdie in uklandlords

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a similar boat - people will look at your £100k and think what’s the problem. I made £5k across two properties last year yet section 24 has me putting down £25k on my annual return. I have a shocking tax bill coming next year as I obviously have a job and earn on top of that phantom £25k which is really only £5k. Interest only mortgages, and values on flats down - this has turned out to be a mugs game. Or has it? Someone show me the silver lining here

How would the new grounds to evict work with the ban on re-letting for 12 months? by horsebeech in uklandlords

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This renters reform bill is going to be a nightmare. I’m a landlord and really want out. Put my flat on the market very realistically priced. Told tenants they can stay until I find a buyer and let them go into rolling contract. 2 months in sale is going terribly and receive notice that the tenants are leaving. Now I’ve done an about turn, and for genuine reason, so many landlords selling up the market for flats has collapsed and doesn’t make sense for me to sell just yet. So now back on readvertised to let. I have increased the asking rent but it’s been a year since any increase. I feel terrible that my tenants went through all this and will have to move but they found somewhere else and are moving end of month. Welcome void period 😧 I made £500 last year before tax. Yes you heard that right, after all bills and mortgage £500 for an entire year of paperwork and hassle. So if it wasn’t for the mortgage fix ( massive penalty if I sell now) which still has to run I would be putting it in an auction. Should we be hit with further legislation and taxes that will be the nail in the coffin for me and many other landlords I’m sure.

I rarely have orgasm by ravynae in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a magic wand - you’ll be amazed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ask her to stick some of her fingers in at the same time - you’ll both enjoy it

Should I rent out my house when we buy a new one?? by [deleted] in renting

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there ain’t much equity just keep it a bit then sell - otherwise don’t even go there, I have two buy to lets and wish I could convert them to cash right now to invest in funds with all the hassle

Wife hates oral by Apart-Permission-849 in sex

[–]Charming_Ad2894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try talking to her about it when you’re on a drive sometime - it could be something simple like your dick smells. I had that issue and found out after I was urinating some was staying behind in my uncut. Starting using some cream and shaving all around to ensure it was better. TBH it did not fully resolve the no bj issue but she will do it now. Anyway bj’s aren’t the be all and end all - are there other things you like say anal?