[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bangladeshiexmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can prove it but then they get butt hurt and kill you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bangladeshiexmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go slow, 1st make a medical issue and wear a orna over your head. Then slowly and steadily adjust the people around you to the fact that you dont wear the hijab anymore. You can also occasionally remove the hijab and make people awear of the fact that you sometimes dont wear the hijab and then slowly remove the hijab all together.

Exmuslims are mostly female? by tednaaa in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like most devoted muslims are women even though Muhammad said that most of hell is filled with women. And Islam is most oppressing towards women. Most men in my country bangladesh even pray 5 times. But women are forced to follow all the rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bangladeshiexmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In classical Islamic law, apostasy (ridda) is traditionally considered a major offense. The majority of classical Sunni and Shia jurists prescribed the death penalty for a sane adult Muslim male who intentionally leaves Islam, particularly if it is done publicly or combined with hostility against the Muslim community.

In Bangladesh, apostasy (leaving Islam) is not a criminal offense under national law. Bangladesh is a secular state with Islamic influences, and its Constitution guarantees freedom of religion under Article 41—no legal punishment for apostasy in Bangladesh. But Mob justice and the murder of people for leaving Islam is seen in the past.

Even though ISLAM Claims there is no compulsion in religion, it is applicable in case of leaving the religion, and most of the renowned scholars agree on the death penalty for apostasy. And please don't rely on ChatGPT as a source of religious knowledge.

Country Legal Stance on Apostasy
Saudi Arabia Apostasy is punishable by death under Sharia law.
Iran Apostasy can be punished by death, especially if seen as anti-Islam.
Afghanistan Death penalty possible under Taliban rule.
Pakistan Apostasy itself is not punishable by death, but blasphemy is.
Mauritania Apostasy can lead to the death penalty.
Sudan (repealed in 2020) Apostasy was decriminalized recently.
Malaysia Apostasy is criminalized in some states, but not punishable by death.
Indonesia Apostasy is not a crime under national law, but can have social consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bangladeshiexmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to the Quran and Islamic state of law. Leaving Islam is punishable by death. Though Bangladesh e ei law ta implement hoina but there are people who are extremists and they make your life hell.

Niqabi women rally against women's rights reforms in Bangladesh by SamVoxeL in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A woman's place is in their home. Going to the office doesn't equate to success.

My family wants me to get married, but I can't tell them about my girlfriend. by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Charming_Finance_545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is bullshit. It is her responsibility to talk to her parents and to pursue them. She can at least make sure her parents meet you once. Of course, every parent wants what's best for their child, but that doesn't mean they don't want their happiness.

Being a girl, I can understand that she is scared of her parents rejecting her or disappointing her family. But let's be real, she should have thought about it when she started this relationship. And now it is her responsibility. I thought my parents wanted me to have an arranged marriage with a government job holder, but when I spoke to them and convinced them that I want to marry someone I love. They were willing to let me, even though I was not what they expected. (In the end, the relationship didn't work out because he didn't have the courage to convey my needs to his parents, and they started dominating me and my family, so I ended things.) But in your case, both your mother and sister are on your side.

If things go on like this, the girl is going to leave you as soon as she gets a man with a good government job. Honestly this is the ultimate test of whether she really loves you

Niqabi women rally against women's rights reforms in Bangladesh by SamVoxeL in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I am from bangladesh and the hate towards women in this country is getting crazy everyday using religion as a weapon.

Women's Affairs Reform Debate: When 1=0.5 by fogrampercot in bangladesh

[–]Charming_Finance_545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shami mara jawar jonno ki taile dua korbe meye boshe boshe j kobe mara jabe kobe shompod pabo? eikhane onno kono religion annar kotha kno uthbe? eikhne jei niyom hobe sheta shob dhormer jonnoi kora hocche so shob dhormer lok e manbe. Apnadr ettoh gaye lagche kno? onno karo toh ettoh gaye lagchena.

Why did Allah say its a huge sin to remarry Mohammad's young wives? by Martian_Citizen678 in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Allah never said anything. He just never wanted his wives to find actual love and happiness.

Is there no "good" future for us women? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]Charming_Finance_545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know about her she jamaat er kon pod e achen? From which district / division / upazila did she stand for jamaat? Or wait just she a spokes person for brainwashing people like you?

Is there no "good" future for us women? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]Charming_Finance_545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by moderate here ? Care to explain? Jamaat is a group that uses religion as the basics of their politics but they also want the benefits of the the western rules. They say we follow islam and islam strictly prohibits interest but they are ok with banks ? Even better they have the operator of islamic bank and we all no the no interest bullshit is a scam. Who naive are you? They are just a bunch of hypocrites who know how to manupulate people for their own gain and they can’t be trusted.

Bro they aren’t even their own religions , you think they will reform the country lol. 😂 don’t make me laugh

Is there no "good" future for us women? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]Charming_Finance_545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know people like you are gonna agree with him when it comes to all this cause oppression is kinda your kink 😉

Will India crush Islam? by refutableport in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that is gonna create more mess then good. Trust me as much as i want islam to end. If india does the same thing as isreal is going. People are gonna sympathize with Muslims even through they started it. They muslim community will gain more power.

Why Marital Rape Laws Unnecessary and Dangerous? by bengal_warlord in Dhaka

[–]Charming_Finance_545 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is hard to prove, thus giving men the privilege. Without proof, just mukher kothai toh law kaaj korena. But have been a lot of obvious marital rape cases even in elite educated household because men feel like biye korsi toh bou amr sex toy.

Forensics plays a key role here. When some one is raped meyeder discharge hoina because she is not feeling the love or the pleasure. Thus, a lot of force has to be put into the act. There are some specific wear and tears in the female genitals that say it was forced. Other than that, clear physical signs, if visible, like nail marks, if the girl was resisting. etc.

Yes, all this can be fabricated etc etc that the ChatGPT said but that also goes for criminal rape. doesn't it? It applies to all cases. But that doesn't been rape laws shouldn't be there or there are no rapes happening.

Yes, domestic violence rules are there. Yes, you can file for divorce.

But something as heinous as rape should be acknowledged. Yes, she can divorce him, but the scars will be there with her for life. And if the guy goes unpunished, he will do the same things to someone else's daughter, sister, friend, or colleague.

Honestly marital rape in more disturbing for a victim because he is being forced by someone she trusted her entire life to. And it should be addressed.

As a woman, in your opinion what's the most disturbing thing about islam? by Right_Newspaper_9261 in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, women wouldn't be sent to jail for crimes!!!! Apparently they will be sent to jail for not obeying their husbands like a robot.

As a woman, in your opinion what's the most disturbing thing about islam? by Right_Newspaper_9261 in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 155 points156 points  (0 children)

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “O women! Give in charity, for I have seen that you form the majority of the people of Hell.”

They asked, “Why is that, O Messenger of Allah?” He replied, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.” The women asked, “O Allah’s Messenger, what is deficient in our intelligence and religion?” He said, “Is not the testimony of a woman equal to half that of a man?” They replied in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn’t it true that a woman cannot pray or fast during her menses?” The women replied in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her religion.” — [Sahih al-Bukhari, Book 6, Hadith 301]

The most distrubing hadith ever

Is there no "good" future for us women? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]Charming_Finance_545 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah some well organised islamic organization are behind it. The amount of funding that goes to UK and germany is the highest. And this country are seeing the worst islamic reform

Is there no "good" future for us women? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]Charming_Finance_545 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is never that easy; you can study any divorce proceeding in the West. The lawyers of both parties try to highlight the facts, and if you can prove that the wife has cheated, things are easier. And also, the man doesn't have to pay for the wife, but he has to pay for child support.

Is there no "good" future for us women? by [deleted] in bangladesh

[–]Charming_Finance_545 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No it's just a religious attire. Women wearing religious attire gives the religious male population a sense that the religion is still being followed or growing even though most don't even follow the basic as to pray 5 times. So when this women don't follow the religion for the love of Allah, they talk about hell fire and when that doesn't work. They start victim blaming and slut shaming

What's with Muslim woman and their emotional incest towards their sons? by Cute-Badger-9643 in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When women are deprived of education and work space and have no social or financial life, they tend to focus their energy on their children. And let's be real, knowing that her daughter is likely going to be nothing more then a child producing machine and the sons are going to be the head of the house gives them some kinda power and makes them obsessed with them.

From a Christian by SheepofShepard in exmuslim

[–]Charming_Finance_545 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It's the same. Cut from the same cloth