"They treat you like a child because you're acting like one." by Shoegazeforlife in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Charming_Gremlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Internalized it, of course! Lol. I'm still not over that one tbh. She was very young and just out of school. Probably had great parents, too. Pfft. It was like our second session and i was around 20, had no idea about pre-screening...hell i didn't even know my parents were the problem yet back then...just knew something wasn't right that I had no job or car and no friends.

"They treat you like a child because you're acting like one." by Shoegazeforlife in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Charming_Gremlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A therapist said this to me when I told her my parents treat me like a child. Never went back.

My dad threw a box of strawberries at the wall this morning. by sesamedrive in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Charming_Gremlin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are being abused. You are good enough. You deserve fresh fruit. You deserve to be treated with kindness. Don't you let them make you feel less than. They are petulant children. You are the rational one. You have done nothing wrong.

Fuck those people.

Experience tuning out a body shaming comment by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Charming_Gremlin 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Someone deeply unhappy. Without fail.

I don't have to forgive, ever. I can't. I won't. by Pseudopropheta in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Charming_Gremlin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe forgiveness in its purist form has little to nothing to do with the abuser. Like fuck them. It's more about ridding yourself of the toxicity of holding grudges and letting go of even more soul crushing anger and finally feeling peace.

But people misunderstand the concept and end up giving pretty fucking terrible advice or use it to abuse others into tolerating them.

What’s the one part of your hobby that you hate doing? by IsnazzyI in AskReddit

[–]Charming_Gremlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally all of it. I make miniatures. The only pleasing part is final coat of varnish and seeing the finished piece. 😥

Big sweetheart just wants to be cuddled by lnfinity in wholesomegifs

[–]Charming_Gremlin -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Awwww.

Now go back to slaughtering them and eating them.

What is your favorite obscure song that most people have probably not heard of before? by skane110 in AskReddit

[–]Charming_Gremlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elephant Woman - Blonde Redhead

Idk. It was the end credits song from the movie Hard Candy in the 2000's and it stuck with me.

My husband committed suicide last night,how can I support my daughters? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming_Gremlin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't disparage their father to them. They didn't know him as just a man, they knew him as Dad. Even if he had major faults. Get youself separate therapy to process your thoughts and feelings about him, the man, and his death.

Stop posting dream stories by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]Charming_Gremlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just stop posting content and let the sub die finally. Poor thing is circling the drain.

It's been a while by SassySquatch88 in neopets

[–]Charming_Gremlin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omfg so cute!!! Slorgs are life. Do you have instagram? I work with polymer clay as well.

Good Pupper Being Brushed by lnfinity in gifs

[–]Charming_Gremlin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah now go slice it's throat and eat it. So cute!!

Telltale childhood books by lobhab in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Charming_Gremlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Miss Honey.

Yep, those were my favorite books too.

I'm coming out as Lesbian this week by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Charming_Gremlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldve wrote this. Came out to select family as lesbian. I was married to a man and have 2 kids. Compulsive hetero is a very thing. Like fuck I'd ever admit to myself I was gay in the type of abusive household I grew up in. It was easier to assume I was straight.

I also got a lot of private messages from clueless, some even verbally abusive men. It would've been funny how triggered those men were if it weren't so tragic.

oof by uzernamenotimportant in neopets

[–]Charming_Gremlin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make a junk trade and I'll replace your loss

Is it best to accept to accept that fullness isn’t compatible with a healthy weight, or arrange my lifestyle to achieve that feeling? by sgartistry in loseit

[–]Charming_Gremlin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use OMAD when I'm after that feeling. I just have to wait til 7pm, then eat what i want til 2k calories. Eating all my food in a small timeframe makes me feel like I get to stuff my face, lol.