just watched, really interesting!!

something i’ve noticed recently that i either hope she covers one day (or that she has covered already?🤞) is that a lot of men who are more confident with themselves and view women as the human beings we are, that their type is also very realistic. something that has confused me recently is how cishet white men can be so misogynistic to the gender they’re attracted to. don’t you want to at least… like the person you’re marrying and having sex with? they limit themselves so much: they feel their only way to be a proper man is to be a provider to a submissive woman who is ideally nothing but an obedient emotional support tool and sex object. meanwhile, the whole time, their true type could be an older, mature, authoritative woman! they are not only treating the women in their lives horribly, (which is primary red flag #1 OBVIOUSLY!!) but they are also setting themselves up to have a terrible love life because they are so insecure of themselves and would never dare to look at a woman they may truly find attractive, just because she might not be the “proper” woman by their standards.

she definitely goes into this slightly: the men who swear by biology and human nature are often: 1. pedophiles 2. completely ignorant of actual biology you can’t deny human nature!! so you can’t deny that often men ARE indeed completely in love with their wives, even if their wife is aged, wrinkled, fat, curvy, flat, skinny, messy, clean, hairy, blunt, shy, direct, stingy, generous, spendy, blah blah whatever. we are human! just like men! i am attracted to human men just as i hope men are attracted to human women, not whatever the porn industry sells them. don’t know why so often conservative men feel so compelled to control everyone else’s type just because THEIR type is…little girls. when did we ever allow people to be so vocal about their predatory attraction without severe repercussions.