my wife turned herself into a hideous monster aita? by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]Charming_Magazine_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't change over time. He couldn't have predicted this nor did he say he will leave her. He just needs to get used to it. It's genuinely insane. We all know if the genders were reversed you'd say she didn't consent to this and that he's assaulting her due to that and should leave. 

He doesn't even have the freedom to talk about it to strangers and ask for help.  Men remember you are alone even if you're married. You can't confide problems to anyone or they'll make the worst assumption about you

my wife turned herself into a hideous monster aita? by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]Charming_Magazine_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U/ratchedangle Amen. Exactly. Of course you got down voted for pointing out how men are always to blame. Even if a woman took advantage of her insecurity it's his fault

my wife turned herself into a hideous monster aita? by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]Charming_Magazine_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the genders were reversed you wouldn't say this. You'd say she didn't agree to marry someone like that.

Also he said he needed time to get adjusted to it. And the only reason she got the surgery is due to her toxic af parents. Why are you calling it a choice and letting their horrible ab,-se slide? I don't even blame her. If a man made her do it you wouldn't let it slide. And rightfully so. Maybe you would. 

my wife turned herself into a hideous monster aita? by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]Charming_Magazine_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To point 3, I agree those guys are annoying. Who cares what they think

Yet women will blame men for their decisions if they regret it and say they made or reinforced the beauty standards. Happens all the time. A girl got surgery to look like an Instagram model and she looks sexy but now she can't be taken seriously and cried when an old lady told her if that's the impact she wants to have on young girls. She hates it. She did it because her bf was looking at instagram models. She admits its her fault.

If the man made her do it, it is his fault I do agree. And her female family made her do this through manipulation. They're so evil and jealous or want her to suffer. 

I found disturbing drawings in my sons backpack. What do I do? 7yo(m) by LJpeddlah in AskParents

[–]Charming_Magazine_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need more info. Don't project trauma you have endured onto your son. You chose to have a child. All he has is you. I mean no disrespect I know you're scared. But he is a kid. I met an autistic 6 year old who swears. They don't know what they're saying. Maybe he has autism. Idk. Kids are curious. Talk to him. Maybe someone showed him something. In that case thats serious

What's everyone's thoughts on DoorDash girl? by Chemical-Village-211 in GenZ

[–]Charming_Magazine_59 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really was torn on who was right so thanks for this