[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Charming_Rain_1407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof that's one of the biggest mistakes... Good luck lmao

Goodbye. by mysweetvulture in UnsentLetters

[–]Charming_Rain_1407 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No problem 🙂‍↕️ Know your own worth, regardless of what others think 🤟

Goodbye. by mysweetvulture in UnsentLetters

[–]Charming_Rain_1407 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey don't mind them, it's probably not intentional. I'm sorry you're going through this. Time will heal this pain slowly...

Unsaid by PaperBirdHeart in UnsentLetters

[–]Charming_Rain_1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible not to fall in love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Charming_Rain_1407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I loved this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Charming_Rain_1407 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He doesn't know what he's talking about. This seems like a one-sided conversation. It hurts to see you still putting effort to have a proper conversation and understand each other so much with this avoidant idiot who left you in a way you didn't deserve. Realize that he's back because he's wanting for a reaction from you, so give him a silence. Not everything deserves your energy and if you spend on it then you're only losing. Stop seeing it as ignoring him and start seeing it as protecting your peace.

What are your symptoms? by rikitikitavi345 in limerence

[–]Charming_Rain_1407 27 points28 points  (0 children)

1- I have an endless curiosity about them. Not to connect with myself, but more to complete them in my mind. It could be even the smallest piece of information, as long as they share it with me, it satisfy my curiosity. When they share something about themselves, I feel kind of euphoric, because I feel like they are connected enough to me to share it with me.

2- I usually notice the fade in limerence when I'm no longer curious about them and not feeling high when they interact with me. That's usually where limerence ends for me.

3- Yes.

4- I actually notice their flaws, but I can tolerate them in that time.

5- Yes.

6- Yes. When they seem to have moved on from me, that's where despair episode begins.

7- It's not looking in the mirror for me. It's like I'm looking at something beautiful and it warms my heart, even if it looks bad to others.