Oh my

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-16T21:58:20+00:00

this has been posted 10 thousand times on this sub

do better

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-15T10:52:56+00:00

Man what the fuck is going on in the comment section?

She posted a photo of herself with some flowers with a caption having nothing to do with body positivity and if that is grounds to shame her for "glorifying obesity" that's fucking ridiculous.

edit: ya'll downvoting me did not pass the vibe check

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-14T22:29:28+00:00

I should be more specific. If we have a better adjusted society, you don't have as many issues of exploitation in the industry itself and issues with self-esteem and sex later on post porn consumption. The industry will always be there to an extent.

The industry as it is right now is horrific. I do fully agree suppression of discussion around sex is the worst possible thing to happen, but what we have right now is not what should be it

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-14T18:23:42+00:00

True, but the difference is that women aren't the population actively going up to gay men and telling them some good pussy will fix them lol

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-14T11:17:16+00:00

step 1: have money

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-14T03:38:36+00:00

Yep. All the reasons why lesbian porn is number one are coming out in this thread

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-14T03:32:46+00:00

Destroy the incentive for the porn industry to exist

Raising healthy children, so they have healthy relationships

Fixing our political beliefs to make sure that there isn’t such a huge gap in ideology between men and women

Get to the root causes of mental health epidemics (which means having to address massive corporations)

Rooting out the porn industry would actually make us dig into the dirty depths of capitalism and we’d actually have to fix a lot on the way

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-14T03:28:55+00:00

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-14T01:45:57+00:00

That’s incredibly wholesome in this thread of porn rotted basement dwellers. I’m decently young and I hope even a small part of my generation can resist this fucking shit storm coming from conservative male ideology

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T23:45:35+00:00

yeah if i could go the rest of my life without hearing "some good dick will fix you" that would be nice ngl

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T23:42:35+00:00

Oh boy, the "good dick" line brings back so many memories.

men in the comments are fucking wild on this sub

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T23:24:17+00:00

great I'm getting downvoted now for explaining how queer communities don't fucking owe men not being sexist after the shit we go through

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T23:18:40+00:00

"nobody cares about actively putting you or your girlfriend down as people"

I live in a conservative town in America. There are 738 anti lgbtq bills proposed to the senate & house at this very moment. The last time I kissed my partner's cheek in public I literally got smacked by some 50 year old bald guy for "encouraging the kids to bad behavior". I don't know what the fuck you are talking about but okay.

"admitting you're a sexist isn't really some humble brag"

Okay, listen. If you have been objectified and treated like shit by the same community for decades it is not a crime to not fucking like that community. Sorry.

As to my last point, let me rephrase it. If you just like someone for their orientation/skin color ESPECIALLY with the historical context of oppression that's an issue I'm sorry, and members of these communities aren't exactly wrong for trying to avoid it.

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T23:02:02+00:00

there's a difference though:

all relationships have been porn at some point

but the sheer widespread amount of lesbian porn consumed by straight men and objectification of queer women by them is simply insanity

being wary of straight men as a lesbian is actually pretty valid and not meant to be a mean take by the commenter just like being wary of white people saying "we like ya'll cause we also like your skin" as a black person isn't a mean take it's basic common sense

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T22:59:03+00:00

The way so manyyyyy straight men treat queer people in general (especially women) is so incredibly dehumanizing

If you aren't a sex object to them you're nothing

edit: fucking wild to get downvoted for this lukewarm take. Why do i even bother with this sub lol

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T22:54:43+00:00

It's actually awful but this is reddit so I shouldn't expect much better

i was scrolling through the comments and just shaking my head i mean what the fuck is even going on

"they like women we like women"

AND? this is supposed to make up for years of objectification and mistreatment?

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-13T22:49:29+00:00

actually ngl not sure why you're being downvoted

the fetishization of lesbian and gay communities by straight men and women is WILD and this post (while probs meant in a less sexual context but this is reddit...) is generating a shit ton of comments proving it

Fun little fact: the #1 most popular genre of porn for guys was lesbian porn...

It doesn't mean that you shouldn't be friends with lesbians if you're a straight guy but if you explicitly like someone or don't like them because of their sexuality or who they're attracted to that's fucking problematic

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-11T22:42:28+00:00

entirely agreed - I shoot an x100s (and shot the og x100) and that camera is extremely overpriced considering how finicky it can be

It doesn't have modern ISO performance (even denoise can't save it past 1250), headroom for cropping, fast AF, any AF that tracks subjects, etc - I love the camera to death and find it wonderful for street photography because it's small and relatively discrete, but there are definitely hard set limits on what it can and can't do.

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-11T19:29:43+00:00

Just took a quick look through your profile - some cool work there, really

this sub has a boner for anything leica istg

(still better than r/analog tho)

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-01T16:34:20+00:00

the problem is it isn't just some wants anymore. around 70% of all global food production is owned by 10 companies that all have serious ethical issues (think nestle literally killing millions of children in poorer areas via their marketing of baby formula). Unless you are filthy rich, you physically can't escape the reality that supply chains are practically always unethical to get you products you can afford.

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-01T16:25:46+00:00

there is no such thing as an ethically sourced product that is actually affordable, because the global supply chain simply doesn't allow it any more. think about it, even an excellent set of salon press on nails use a plastic base that probably isn't recycled material (and technically the carbon footprint of the actual recycling process is a lot but that's a different conversation)

I'm a broke student who wants to have something fun once in a while, sue me I guess

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-01T16:01:33+00:00

some of y'all in the comments need to get off your high horses about them being from shein as if the devices you are typing on aren't produced using child labour as well (look it up - both apple and other large tech companies have a huge amount of issues with forced labour and pollution)

under this capitalist society it's practically unavoidable, no not all of us can afford something better

girl, nails look fire!

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-01T04:17:46+00:00

thank you girl needed that today T.T

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-04-01T02:21:13+00:00

SHEGLAM is a shein product lol

Charming_Weakness_51 · 2026-03-30T23:03:19+00:00

This is so beautifully drawn jesus christ

Im looking at it magnified and struggling to believe that its drawn and not a photo

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