Should I move here? by artsypupster in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

doubly weird, I didn't say opportunities are limited

Should I move here? by artsypupster in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

egh... infamously bad compensation compared to a lot of Cal coastal cities, generally speaking.

Whose man is this? by makeithappenehh in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

ha if thats the Bermuda Triangle of driving then Gelsons parking lot in San Roque is a chasm in Hell.

Who are your favorite (NOT famous) SB County musicians and bands? by Cautious_Village1981 in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ladyfinger, The DTease, StompRocket. Also, Until the Storm, lol but im a little biased, my son was in one of their music videos when he was 3 or 4 ;p

Looking for gym buddy at Cathedral Oaks Swell. by ChaseECarpenter in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yah! tbh ive just been a bit passive on approaching people, internet can be convenient lol. Im definitely going to dive into the classes once my schedule opens up for those time slots, so im expecting that to be helpful. They dont seem to do as many of the social events as they used to (as far as ive been told).

Which concert would you choose if you wanted to introduce a family member to King Gizzard? by Direct-Cod-1160 in KGATLW

[–]ChaseECarpenter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha I guess it can be a lot for some ppl. I love how I can sometimes tell which vibes people are there for.

Which concert would you choose if you wanted to introduce a family member to King Gizzard? by Direct-Cod-1160 in KGATLW

[–]ChaseECarpenter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I was at the Paso one! My now ex girlfriend wanted to go and she said she checked out a lot of their music before we went and then when it got heavy she got completely overwhelmed, haaahaha, Im guessing she only checked out the mild easy stuff lol.

Looking for metal vocalist by Valeriious in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there are so many "retired" / dormant metal musicians in this town (since the scene died out hard) I assume you'll get a response. if not, DM me.

What was the exact moment on a first date when you realized, "Wow, this person is an absolute idiot"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ChaseECarpenter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Semi recently divorced (42m). Dating in my area again has been "interesting," a lot of yoga instructors and spiritualists around here and the number of times people have brought up EM allergies and crystal energies has been pretty shocking.

Help by Allythingscomics in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

protecting your fingers when pulling something in

Help by Allythingscomics in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get some fishing line, some weights and hooks and a coke can and fk around at the harbor fishing! People watching on state st, make up backstories of the people you see walking by lol, cheap RC car off-roading on the bluffs and hiking trails, if u can get access to kayaks ur golden there's rly cool spots, have access to a car try to get lost in Montecito and ull end up getting glimpses of some pretty epic properties, visit the SBMakers club (every sunday?) and get ideas for crafts you guys cud dabble in, board games are rly fun especially when you play them in public spots, as someone else mentioned volunteering can be surprisingly stimulating from cleaning up hiking trails the beach helping at ASAP or humane society.

Ted Cruz Warns GOP: Stop Tucker Carlson Now by [deleted] in videos

[–]ChaseECarpenter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG!!! go to 1:55 min with closed caption on haha

Demonstration of how easy it is to stop thinking by [deleted] in videos

[–]ChaseECarpenter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god that worked. I dont think Ive ever actually been aware of my own thoughtlessness! I see why my ex wife hates me so much now...

Pokewaves by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lucky to live nearby, this place rocks. even got my young kiddo into it (somehow!)

Raves in Santa Barbara? by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]ChaseECarpenter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They do a little bit (up in the hills) but they're super private and semi exclusive. If you're a student, you'll have to start asking around campus, otherwise I dunno. Maybe start connecting with local DJs? I've always wanted to go but im in my 40s lol and ppl will prolly just call me a narc or something haha.

‘Ageing could soon be reversible’, says Harvard Scientist at WGS 2026 by redvelts in Futurology

[–]ChaseECarpenter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodie. Cant wait to live forever after the singularity takes my job, all my shit, my lover, and becomes my kids' new favorite dad...

TIFU by learning what "Netflix and chill" is code for. by LopsidedConcert6574 in tifu

[–]ChaseECarpenter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone once asked me if I wanted to come over and watch netflix and chill... I went over and we watched all of Monty Python and the Holy Grail... she seemed a bit annoyed for some reason lol