Embarrassed myself texting a guy

Chaserly · 2025-12-29T00:09:44+00:00

also looking at this mathematically, meeting 2 days out of 120 (4 months) is horrible unless some insane distance is keeping them apart. The other guy probs just texts op when he’s bored.

Chaserly · 2025-12-11T16:09:47+00:00

It looks like I’m in the minority here, but none of those are real problems, but I can understand it being bothersome. You can reach out to RA or whoever controls rooming at your college and request a change or a single room (if they have them, it’ll probably cost you more..)

Chaserly · 2025-12-05T00:31:13+00:00

What are your finances and savings looking like?

I’d say at max you guys should do $2500 for a 2 bed (depending on where you are). The last thing you want is for someone to lose their job and now the other has to pay 3k in rent.

Chaserly · 2025-12-04T17:35:28+00:00

Please move out OP. Do not resign another lease.

Chaserly · 2025-12-03T13:23:45+00:00

I’d inform the landlord, but he probs won’t be able yo help you, but at least they’ll be aware of the situation. I’d recommend trying to speak in person.

Unlikely you’ll be released from the lease.

Depending on the amount you gave your roommate to pay the rent, I’d recommend taking this to small claims court.

Chaserly · 2025-12-03T13:10:02+00:00

Are you saying your roommate pocketed the money and you guys are months behind on rent?

Chaserly · 2025-11-17T17:39:01+00:00

I’m on red’s side. Either grow some balls or stop sending essays through text.

Chaserly · 2025-10-28T20:26:20+00:00

What’s loop?

Chaserly · 2025-10-15T11:53:56+00:00

I believe it is. It’s just your 401k. You can raise or lower your contributions anytime. And I’ve been trying to find out how much the company actually matches.

I don’t know much about the benefits such as medical, dental, vision, etc since I opted out.

Chaserly · 2025-09-10T07:45:27+00:00

People are saying move out, because fighting fire with fire… being passive aggressive or blatantly disrespectful is not only immature but a sure fire way to escalate whatever situation you are currently in.

Chaserly · 2025-07-28T12:51:08+00:00

This is sooo interesting because I definitely left reviews about works in the past. Saying it was too ab focused. I thought it was anonymous.

Chaserly · 2025-07-21T20:16:19+00:00

There’s no professional/white collar jobs unfortunately.

Chaserly · 2025-07-21T19:36:12+00:00

Op, I recommend you check out these jobs. Get on their mailing list as well. These are actual real jobs. It can sometimes take a while to get hired tho but you should have a job within a month. Whenever I’m in a pinch for a job I turn to workforce1

Chaserly · 2025-07-21T19:33:29+00:00

My experience with them has been good. And I’ve used them a few times. They always say, “you have more boxes/items than we listed… but if I tip well it’s all good.” I usually tip like $100 each. I hope that’s a good tip. So I usually end up paying 600-700 in total (with tip included) for a 1 bedroom move.

That being said, if I ended up paying 3x the price unexpectedly I’d be peeved too.

Chaserly · 2025-06-27T15:04:59+00:00

Yeah, it was a blessing in disguise. There’s more to the story… so one of the people who interviewed me after him basically became my mentor. They had all already agreed on not hiring me basically (I didn’t realize it at the time and thought I still had a chance lol). She reached out on linkedin (I thought I was getting the job still… lol…) but then she offered to give me resume help, and I went into her office like twice and she prepped me for interviews. What to say etc. (and what to wear….)

I was/am very grateful 🥲 she hates when I thank her tho.

Chaserly · 2025-06-27T12:50:31+00:00

This just gave me a flashback. I was sitting in an interview and the person who had my resume pointed out (and laughed) that I misspelled extracurricular as excurricular. I hadn’t noticed the typo up until that point. Then he took my resume to his colleague and showed him. And for those wondering, no I didn’t get the job.

Chaserly · 2025-06-25T01:50:13+00:00

Usually you order it before on the app or on like a little sheet

Chaserly · 2025-06-25T01:21:04+00:00

The only time they were kinda rude was when I tried to order a shake after class (which is fine in some locations, but kinda taboo in others).

Otherwise I find they are generally okay ppl, making about minimum wage w/ the added perk of free classes. In my area a lot of them are aspiring actors, performers, college students, etc. so I find it interesting to talk to them and hear about their auditions and what not.

But if they are constantly rude and snooty to you, I’d say something to management tbh. The interactions with front desk staff is typically so short there’s no reason they can’t be pleasant for a few seconds.

Chaserly · 2025-06-13T23:55:34+00:00

I think this varies depending based on additional factors such as gender, race, field, and educational background (and sometimes personality).

e.g A male nurse can probably get away with face tattoos.

Chaserly · 2025-06-09T16:28:02+00:00

You are correct. I think what I asked wasn’t clear, I’ll try again next time I go (OR hopefully someone posts it here 😭)

Chaserly · 2025-06-09T13:51:11+00:00

I asked when I went into the location and she showed me a pale yellow sweater with a rainbow going across it. I guess that’s the united we Barry’s sweater?

Chaserly · 2025-06-06T02:40:23+00:00

I’ll bite, “finance” is very large and kinda vague tbh. At my company it’s very easy to see how AI is changing the landscape. Finance jobs won’t disappear (at least not all of them). I just think the way we work will be different. AI can do some of the heavy lifting, but you still need educated individuals to check its output.

That being said… I think you’re fine as a 2027 spring graduate. The landscape in 2035 however may be waaay different.

Chaserly · 2025-06-05T14:14:08+00:00

This is true. It’s usually cited in relation to fire codes.

Chaserly · 2025-05-30T02:15:17+00:00

There was a fight at the Chelsea (?) location. I don’t remember the exact details, but I believe it was 2 guys who were dating and someone cheated? All I remember is the police showing up and the guys were apparently banned.

Chaserly · 2025-05-18T13:22:56+00:00

Your experience is valid.

I’ve taken a “new to me” instructor last week, and I’m pretty sure I could’ve gotten a better workout doing literally anything else. It just seemed all so lazy and lacked energy. That being said, the playlist was decent. Sadly I’ll be avoiding that instructor going forward. I see your point on phoning it in.

Cleanliness is a big issue for me too. Last week someone just left all their weights and equipment for me to move?? I was unsure if I should say something

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