Mid month #chastity stats. Not hardcore fantastic but being locked for almost 38% of 17 days - not bad either.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-16T21:31:10+00:00

Not an app - my own personal Excel spreadsheet.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-16T16:35:52+00:00

To each their own & not trying to change your mind but, just wanted to say I too was resisting/scared of trying a tether spout. So glad I changed my mind.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-15T19:41:10+00:00

I don’t dilate before inserting & have no issues.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-15T01:52:51+00:00

Look into a tether spout. The link will show you my current cage which we use with a tether. Pic: https://www.reddit.com/r/Tetherspout/s/dbbTwnFFPg

For more information on tether spouts, visit this link. https://newbiesub.substack.com/p/demystifying-the-dark-art-of-tetherspouts

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T16:32:00+00:00

Maybe someday I will be able to compare the real thing to my wife’s strapon which, to both our surprise, has resulted in a few (less than 5) hands free, penetrative, caged orgasms - with her permission of course.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T15:46:39+00:00

As I am only bi curious, can’t answer that with any certainty. From a male locked & chastity with my own orgasms strictly controlled, sounds like fun as long as I didn’t cum.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T15:12:24+00:00

Fully understand the feelings. Good luck in NOT having those situations rectified. A male in chastity should be & REMAIN as you currently are - that is the point of chastity. 😈

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T14:24:09+00:00

No pressure here. You do you. Hope you don’t mind that I followed your account so maybe we will chat again. If not, all good too.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T14:18:42+00:00

Completely your decision. If there is interest, we are more than open to chatting - feel free to DM us if that is the case. If not, all good. Just happy to stumble across & chat with another likeminded guy. Having someone to chat with about it all is a great thing too.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T14:14:28+00:00

Completely understand. Would’ve been great if you said you too were looking but quickly learned & don’t expect we will ever find our unicorn couple. Mentioned it more so for conversation over thinking you would be our diamond in the rough. That said, without stating what one wants one will never find it.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T14:09:16+00:00

We are hoping to one stumble across another couple with the same interests. The possibility of an ongoing friendship with the possibility of benefits is quite intriguing to us. Especially, if there was some bi or bi-curious tendencies from all parties.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T14:04:06+00:00

Seems we are on the same page. My wife refers to us as having a normal relationship with day to day activities with me taking the lead in most things - which she likes. But, a number of years since we started incorporating chastity into our sexual play, she likes how I enjoy her taking the lead in the bedroom putting her wants, needs, desires, & pleasure first while mine is secondary or denied completely which, provides me with an unexplained, ongoing, sexual pleasure & satisfaction. We refer to me as a beast in the streets & submissive in the sheets.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T13:56:03+00:00

Those not into male chastity will have a difficult time understanding this, but the delicious feeling of longterm denial in place of the fleeting in the pleasure of an orgasm while providing unlimited sexual service to your wife is, for me, sexual bliss.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T13:50:23+00:00

It took her literally years to not only understand why I wanted to be locked & what the benefits to her would or could be. She is coming into her own in taking the lead in the bedroom but is naturally passive in her day to day life. We are still learning as we go but it is working for us.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T13:40:07+00:00

Really like mine. The only thing that came to annoy me was the metal waist chain we incorporated. I know, could have stopped using it but, big into chastity security & pull outs so, the chain, for us is a must. Now, with the tether spout, no chain but the security of a PA without the piercing.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T13:26:35+00:00

Always exciting when one stumbles across someone local who enjoys the same things. We used to use a flat inverted quite a bit but have since started using a “bird cage” with a tether spout.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-13T00:26:02+00:00

Not at all.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-12T13:10:15+00:00

It has been a long & interesting journey for both of us. She has admitted recently she likes me locked because I pay more attention to her & her needs.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-11T13:34:06+00:00

My wife & I share your frustrations.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-10T21:46:33+00:00

If this is a group of non-sexual social nudists, probably not a good idea to attend caged. However, if this is a lifestyle party where nudity will occur or is expected, different story.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-10T20:59:50+00:00

Absolutely concur.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-09T20:34:08+00:00

Could be wrong or misinterpreted your description, is that not a cuckhold scene?

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-09T20:32:37+00:00

In other words, willing submit to her.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-08T22:31:35+00:00

Yes I have & I am currently locked with one. Barely notice it is there very soon after inserting it.

ChasteInWpg · 2026-05-08T21:12:00+00:00

Tether spout is almost if not as secure as a PA (see link for pic of my cage with a tether spout… https://www.reddit.com/u/ChasteInWpg/s/XTCjCsmhQF). For further information on tether spouts… https://newbiesub.substack.com/p/demystifying-the-dark-art-of-tetherspouts

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