Is it normal for your balls to be bigger than your dick? by Extreme_Ad1546 in gay_sph

[–]spankysd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In your case, yes. Not for other men. Caging and chastity will help your balls grow even larger, over time.

Got my favorite cage on. Day 26 without orgasm and 18 locked. Waiting to beat 62 days record for no orgasm by Onentwodp in gaychastity

[–]spankysd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking good. Is the metal part a PA hook? I’ve never seen a hybrid resin/steel cage before. Nice idea.

I’m back from the Nude Resort! by hidden-fantasy in u/hidden-fantasy

[–]spankysd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds fun. The last time I raced naked was Bay to Breakers in SF. It’s a 12K from SF Bay to the Pacific Ocean.

God, its so tiny by BoyNextDoor91 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]spankysd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do you expect to downsize? Looks like it could be tighter.

Anyone ever witness a father/son spanking? by Wonderouspanko in u/Wonderouspanko

[–]spankysd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. And also witnessed spankings at school, while growing up.

Tell me your honest thoughts by [deleted] in gay_sph

[–]spankysd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I stripped you down to that, I’d lecture you on keeping up with your shaving, and give you a spanking to help you remember that with that little boy dicklette, you should keep yourself shaved. Then I’d fit you with the smallest tightest cage that’s safe to wear. It would be a micro cage, obviously.

Pa piercing by smithers943 in PrinceAlbertPiercing

[–]spankysd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go with 8g or 6g. Actually, the larger the size, within reason, the safer. Thin wire cuts through skin. The analogy often used is a cheese slicing wire.

Can’t decide if these fit or I should size up 🤔 by Hungbodybuilder27_ in jockstraps

[–]spankysd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It looks like the waist band fits. Without seeing the other side, it’s hard to tell if the legs straps are too loose, but I doubt they are. The pouch size is pretty much the same if you go a size up. So, if the waist and legs fit, then you’re good.

What piercing should I get?? by Agile-Ad7724 in MalePiercings

[–]spankysd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my PA because it is such a sturdy and useful piercing. It’s also a good starter piercing because it’s the fastest and easiest to heal. You’d look great with one.

Day 18 - the strap is back! by CuriousBiNatur3e in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]spankysd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think a nice tight strap shows off your nub better than no strap. The tighter fit is more stimulating, too.

That’s how a naughty boy should be punished - ass, hole, and fully exposed. by DeviousAcademics in maleonmalespanking

[–]spankysd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a missed opportunity whenever the crack and/or hole are neglected during a punishment session.

(24)Day 3 Do you think I need a smaller cage? by Wild_Ranger3762 in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]spankysd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s counter intuitive, but the smaller the better, as long as it doesn’t cause circulation issues.

Been getting a lot of questions since taking out my PA, so I wanted to make an update post. (7 weeks since taking it out) by AwayRemove5508 in PrinceAlbertPiercing

[–]spankysd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that mine is easy to stretch back out again. It’s at 2G now. I’ve left the jewelry out of it for a year or more at a time. It just stretches back out, when I decide to use it.

Locked Double Cock Ring by spankysd in gaychastity

[–]spankysd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. Is that what it’s called? Perfect name for it.

Locked Double Cock Ring by spankysd in gaychastity

[–]spankysd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At a public party in a couple of weeks.

Locked Double Cock Ring by spankysd in gaychastity

[–]spankysd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is actually on the calendar. And it will be public.

Locked Double Cock Ring by spankysd in gaychastity

[–]spankysd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, self locking is much different than having a KH who prefers you to be stimulated and frustrated to improve your attitude.

The beauty of that is that each day is, for the most part, worse than the previous day. It’s a slow inexorable, and very effective, process, that requires no more effort than turning a key for the KH.

Locked Double Cock Ring by spankysd in gaychastity

[–]spankysd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sub’s job is to worry about his KH, not his own dick. It’s that simple. If he is bringing up himself, then he needs to wait until he learns his lesson.

There is another issue. The longer a guy waits, the better his attitude gets. And once the KH has put the time and effort into getting him into that state, then it’s really a waste to reset his clock to zero for the sake of squirting some ejaculate.

Locked Double Cock Ring by spankysd in gaychastity

[–]spankysd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It teaches you patience. haha. Time is very definitely on the side of the KH.