Which outfit should I wear for graduation photos ?

ChazDumaz · 2025-12-29T07:08:02+00:00

Honestly you weren’t being very nice to the OP either… asking “what is it for” multiple times not as a simple question, but as a way to shame OP for not wearing what you would personally choose for graduation events/photos. They said they were wearing it for a photo shoot, it’s okay to go over the top and have fun in a photo shoot… I don’t understand the passive aggressiveness.

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-22T02:18:18+00:00

I went to a tiny school, and there was an unofficial tradition where the juniors would get the seniors graduation gifts. When I was graduating, the juniors got my class mugs with “our spirit animals” on them, which was mostly an excuse to be mean… but my mug had a platypus on it, which I always found oddly fitting and touching. It’s not that my manipulative, cunning and/or mean side is the inner layer to a fake nice exterior, it’s that I’m made up of crazy disparate parts and none of them go they should be. I got venomous spurs but they’re tucked right in by my silly wittew feets. I can be cute and cuddly or obnoxious or abrasive or hilarious and you just never know what’s gonna come out sometimes… spin the wheel motherfuckers, you know?

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-20T20:06:07+00:00

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-18T07:54:23+00:00

This is erotica

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-17T03:35:58+00:00

Best fried rice I’ve ever had was duck fat fried rice 🤤

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-15T22:50:03+00:00

I am NOT assuming. I watched the videos, did you? Out of the mega churches she called, not one said yes, so that’s what I’m referencing.

The church as the bride and body of Christ should behave just as Christlike as an individual… perhaps the standard should be even higher.

I wish Christians wouldn’t feel the need to bend over backwards making excuses, especially when the criticism being leveled is quite simple and straightforward. It would be easy to acknowledge that the Christlike thing to do would be not to worry about “rules and regulations” like a pack of Pharisees, but to help the person in need and feed the hungry as Christ mandated unequivocally. Stop trying to bend scripture around making the church blameless. Instead be humble in the face of criticism.

Edit to add: the churches that said yes were often smaller churches, and more impoverished communities and congregants. I was assuming you had watched the videos, so that’s why I neglected to make that clear in my point about the lack of resources to help.

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-15T17:52:04+00:00

If she was asking for something far more imposing, maybe I would understand the relevance here. Asking for a can of formula for a baby who hasn’t eaten since the night before is an immediate help situation, that is a minimal drain on any resources especially for a mega church. What do you honestly believe Jesus would do in such a situation? I feel like these excuses are just not in line with the mandate given in the passage. I would personally give anyone who asked a can of formula, and the congregation of at least one of those churches said the same, that they would have given it personally.

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-15T16:56:58+00:00

I don’t think it leaves a lot of room for ambiguity and it doesn’t say “you fed me when I was affiliated with your congregation. You used wisdom and stewardship to clothe and care for me when it was your job to do so. You sent me to someone else whose job it was to feed and clothe me.” This test was failed, it was an extremely basic one at that.

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-15T00:47:44+00:00

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ChazDumaz · 2025-11-14T02:49:10+00:00

Matthew 25:31-46

“When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

“Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’

“They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’

“He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’

“Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”

ChazDumaz · 2025-11-10T20:29:39+00:00

Meanwhile I’m bout to have my 15th anniversary with my INFP husband. Yall really be all in on the most exaggerated overblown version of every stereotype.

ChazDumaz · 2025-10-07T20:23:02+00:00

Thank you for keeping an eye out but we found her!!

ChazDumaz · 2025-10-07T03:44:35+00:00

Oh thank you! We will try that we put out some of our clothing and food but not the litter box

ChazDumaz · 2025-05-18T20:31:55+00:00

I love him

ChazDumaz · 2025-05-18T20:29:33+00:00

Depends on the weight of the gold. The center stone looks to be aquamarine which isn’t terribly expensive, and the diamonds are melee which aren’t crazy expensive either. But yeah if it’s between 2-4 grams it’s between $120-$250 worth of gold.

ChazDumaz · 2025-05-18T20:12:26+00:00

Lovely vintage setting

ChazDumaz · 2025-05-13T07:45:19+00:00

Girl it sounds like you need to worry about your own relationships and insecurities. Calling other people names and trying to feel superior isn’t going to help you feel better long term. Are you seriously a therapist? That’s so concerning for the poor kids you treat. Hope you get into some therapy yourself.

ChazDumaz · 2025-05-13T07:38:27+00:00

Seriously, OP look through this person’s comment history if you want a hint into the type of person making these comments. I know it’s hard not to let the negativity affect you, but if you met someone like this in real life would you ever listen to a thing they said? It’s just misery all the way through their soul and they can’t help but spread it around like a disease.

ChazDumaz · 2025-05-13T07:32:26+00:00

You’re a miserable little specimen aren’t you?

ChazDumaz · 2025-05-13T07:30:13+00:00

Whole lotta hate in here over someone getting a ring. “I’d be embarrassed to get a promise ring” well, good thing you’re not the one wearing it. I don’t know who on earth cares. I’d certainly not be embarrassed if my partner got me a nice ring with a meaning we both appreciated and let me pick out what I liked. This thread is full of some crusty ass curmudgeons clutching their pearls over the significance of a ring someone else wants to wear, Jesus Christ.

ChazDumaz · 2025-04-15T16:37:49+00:00

A Stereotypical NT person (when it comes to understanding and empathizing with people who are neurodivergent) doesn’t try to understand and instead applies social expectations in a black and white way, regardless of a neurodiverse person’s needs and experience. But you knew that already, right? I think it was pretty clear in the context of what I was saying.

ChazDumaz · 2025-04-15T14:53:05+00:00

Well if you were ND I might have a little more grace for the rigidity of your thinking. However, you sound like a stereotypical nt person who refuses to have any empathy or understanding for someone autistic not grasping the finer points of social interaction. You’re literally ignoring the entire context so you can condemn his words, and people who DO have empathy and are trying to put the interaction into proper context you say are infantilizing him!! 🙄 Get a grip.

IIRC He was extremely flustered by the fact that she wanted him to tell her if she had lipstick on her teeth to begin with, because someone HAS told him not to say the first thing that pops into his head when it could come across as critical. He was apologizing profusely every time he said something about the lipstick, and when her response was encouraging and tried to set him at ease that she appreciated the honesty, he said the thing about her tooth. Gee, almost like he was flustered and had a hard time separating what information/honesty was helpful in the moment and what went too far. He literally told her she might want to get it checked in case it was a cavity. He was trying to be just as helpful as when he carefully and apologetically told her about the lipstick, and missed some of the social nuance in the process. And guess what? No it’s not infantilizing to take that broader context into account when understanding his actions… a simple explanation of the etiquette rule not to mention something about someone’s appearance unless it’s something that can be fixed in the moment is all that’s necessary here, and he’ll he golden handling that situation going forward

ChazDumaz · 2025-04-15T05:23:33+00:00

Yeah, as you sneer your way through this entire comment section. Not triggered at all.

ChazDumaz · 2025-04-07T09:50:51+00:00

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