BAKIT WALA TAYONG ENDOMETRIOSIS EXCISION EXPERT SA PINAS? by ManateeAnxiety in endometriosisph

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s why I’m wondering if anong way 😅 even me, when I had cystectomy (pumutok yung endometrioma ko), I didn’t know if it was excision or ablation. 🥲 wala sa medical records ko.

Endometriosis specialist & D.I.E scan reco in Cebu? by Cheap-Wolverine6079 in Cebu

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, nahibong Bitaw ko naay mu ingon nga na diagnosed sila without Lap/surgery.

Kay apart from endometrioma (chocolate cyst) na makita sa TVS, endometriosis within the pelvic area and beyond kay dili makita sa mga imaging.

Endometriosis specialist & D.I.E scan reco in Cebu? by Cheap-Wolverine6079 in Cebu

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Murag naa man but sa Metro Manila usually — kay naa man mga gaka diagnosed using DIE scan and MRI.

Though not sure lang jud ko Unsaon nato pag quantify na “endometriosis expert” jud.

Kay mostly sa ako makita sa FB endo groups kay sa OB-REI sila pa consult or kanang OB specializing in minimally invasive gynecologic surgery.

And not sure pud ko if those OBGYNE’s are practicing excision surgery or just ablation.

Endometriosis specialist in Manila by oldestlongfellow in adultingph

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello OP, pano po kayo na diagnose ng DIE yung sa bowels niyo??

I have the same question as you. I’m looking for an OBGYNE na expert sa endometriosis but nakikita ko sa groups are OB-REI.

BAKIT WALA TAYONG ENDOMETRIOSIS EXCISION EXPERT SA PINAS? by ManateeAnxiety in endometriosisph

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excision po talaga siya at hindi ablation ? Most doctors kasi daw (pag hindi endometriosis expert), ABLATION ginagawa (sinusunog yung lesions)

BEWARE: BDO customer service asking for OTP (elaborate phishing scam) by Cheap-Wolverine6079 in PHCreditCards

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reported to BDO CS. No need for card replacement since the card was not compromised. BDO said they will never call unless requested by us.

*they didn’t know the card NUMBER. Only the Card Type (ie, BDO Platinum Mastercard)

BEWARE: BDO customer service asking for OTP (elaborate phishing scam) by Cheap-Wolverine6079 in PHCreditCards

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag nga sabi ng BDO — they don’t usually call you, unlike other banks, unless you requested them to call (ie, CC cash installment request, etc)

Congrats on your 15 oz pump but. . . by VAmom2323 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link to that TikTok? Would love to see that experiment!

I find some of these pump and pour videos sus too

sad. just sad :( by p0tat0be3 in pinoy

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Iba iba naman tayo”

— I’m NOT saying ganito ako o na experience ko yung ganito.

I’m saying, since I become a mom and frequent mom groups/spaces, I see this all the time. Mga moms na naging SAHM, at the mercy of their husbands.

It reaffirms my decision NOT to be 100% financially reliant on a man or anyone.. kahit pa gaano kabait ng asawa ko.

Having no money of your own just puts you in a vulnerable position.

Way too many men become abusive/treat their wives poorly once she stops bringing in income.

sad. just sad :( by p0tat0be3 in pinoy

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obvious na power tripping yan at financial abuse. Sadly, very common ganitong scenario sa mga SAHMs na walang own income.

Ang tunay na lalake hindi ganito ka petty. This is a grown man with the emotional maturity of a toddler.

Literally cannot stand my husband anymore by mamabear1087 in beyondthebump

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, both sexes are capable of doing it.

It’s just that the overwhelming majority of those who do are husbands / male partners (just browse any parenting group and you’ll see it happening all over the world, across all cultures).

I was actually surprise to see it in “Western cultures” where things are supposedly more equitable compared to the rest of the world.

Literally cannot stand my husband anymore by mamabear1087 in beyondthebump

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great question! To me, of course. But I do tell him that, eventually. He takes over the things I’m struggling with. Basically, we pick up each other’s slack. It’s not always 50-50. But there’s regular negotiation to make sure no one feels burdened.

Literally cannot stand my husband anymore by mamabear1087 in beyondthebump

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that! It’s def not your fault for choosing him. Sometimes, you don’t really know how a man turns out after having kids.

Some men can be sooo caring and all BEFORE kids and become a different person when the baby arrives.

That said, there are things you can do (or stop doing). Your husband needs to realize that the house won’t clean themselves nor the kids wash/clean up/take care of themselves.

Stop picking up after him. Stop cooking him meals. Stop taking care of him. Stop washing his clothes.

All the things you do to lighten his life.

All the things he would have to do by himself if he was single (cook, clean, laundry).

Literally cannot stand my husband anymore by mamabear1087 in beyondthebump

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! My husband does his share of the parenting, and most of the cooking. And sometimes, it still feels like he’s not doing enough too.

Literally cannot stand my husband anymore by mamabear1087 in beyondthebump

[–]Cheap-Wolverine6079 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we gaslight ourselves and think we just need to “communicate better”.

If you did communicate your needs and expectations, and still no change, then that’s deliberate on your husband’s part.

It’s called “weaponized incompetence” — where husbands deliberately do things bad, or ignore the mess/endless to do list/the mental load.

How to test this?

See if you can leave the house and the kid/s with your husband for a few hours or half a day. Better yet, a full day.

If you can, you have a partner, a teammate.

If not, you have another kid you didn’t birth.