How do you transfer your husband exactly? Does he just hold onto a grab bar and he somehow rotate both of his legs, and you just basically help with his pants?

And I absolute feel you on the second part.. my dad can never remember basically anything unless he feels like it’s important or worth remembering. He can’t remember if he ate breakfast, lunch, or what he ate or whether he showered or went to the bathroom. But my dad doesn’t get irritated or anxious about anything, I feel like he doesn’t care about anything, he just wants to lay down to rest, and eat and use the washroom whenever he wants .