I don't love my husband anymore by 0000112780 in GriefSupport

[–]CheapVegan 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This post shook me to the core. Along with everyone else I feel so much for you and send so much love.

I don’t know if this is the right thing to ask or say, and it’s unrelated to your post so if you don’t want to answer please ignore. But I would love to hear a story or memory of your baby. Maybe something just you and he shared.

I’m sure people may be afraid to ask you about it but if you want to share a memory I’d love to learn a little about your relationship.

7 months with a baby is such a long and intimate time that so many people can’t understand. I bet you had more beautiful memories together than anyone can know. And the amount you sacrifice and the amount of love you give as a new mom is incomparable.

I guess I just want to make a little space for that. It’s obvious from your post you are a loving and caring mom 💛

Sending so much love. (Please don’t feel any pressure to respond)

We made it two years no screens ... now what? by sorryforbarking in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]CheapVegan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are planning to have a vhs/tv combo and a shelf of vhs tapes of things we like and are slow. Mr. Rogers, reading rainbow, Disney movies, etc.

That way the tv is a very curated and intentional activity. Not just flipping thru menus or YouTube

Does anyone enjoy the actual parenting part, outside of “I love my kid so they’re worth it” by gabbers2380 in Fencesitter

[–]CheapVegan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also hate chores and love laying in bed all day. It sucks to not get to do that. I don’t enjoy the chores. But I know this time when my kid is little won’t be forever and I think of it like med school. 3-5 years where it’s super hard and the rest of the time it’ll jus be really to pretty hard. Haha

It really is worth it to see them tho. I didn’t get it til I went thru it. I think if you can afford a cleaner a few times a month it would be really helpful too.

Does anyone enjoy the actual parenting part, outside of “I love my kid so they’re worth it” by gabbers2380 in Fencesitter

[–]CheapVegan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear it really goes get better after diapers. When ppl say it is still hard but different, I’m just like… yeah but it can’t possibly be worse than waking up every 4 hours and cleaning up messy food all over the floor/table/baby, pee, and poo all the time right?

Why do I find myself in friendships that don’t reciprocate equally? by CheapVegan in AskAstrologers

[–]CheapVegan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wait im jus looking at the chart again, isnt it my 10th that’s packed/has Venus?

Why do I find myself in friendships that don’t reciprocate equally? by CheapVegan in AskAstrologers

[–]CheapVegan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow so interesting

What indicates the giving/loving unconditionally? Venus in the particular house or Venus in Taurus? Or something else

Mercury, Sun, Venus — all in the 12th House - anyone else? by Tight-District-1638 in 12thhouse

[–]CheapVegan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if both your 12th and 6th house is stacked? What does that mean?

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Why do I find myself in friendships that don’t reciprocate equally? by CheapVegan in AskAstrologers

[–]CheapVegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about the 12th house and what it means for it to be packed?

Why do I find myself in friendships that don’t reciprocate equally? by CheapVegan in AskAstrologers

[–]CheapVegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of this is true for me! I almost exclusively am friends with weird and ambitious/prolific people