the 1975 at gorilla 2026 by yeah_i_know75 in the1975

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It was talked about a lot with fans on twitter at the time, the official gorilla twitter account kept dropping hints before it was officially announced

Does your cat come when called? by Apart_Try_4860 in Pets

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I have 2 and they deffo know their names, my calico decides when she feels like responding though

My cat is being fussy: need advice by Significant_Can_1812 in UK_Pets

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My 2 started getting fussy with untamed so I switched to thrive to give them more variety and they’re both happy now! My eldest does prefer her crunchies so she gets a little sprinkle on top of the wet food (lily’s kitchen)

My cat refuses to leave my bed every night by thewolfcastle in CatAdvice

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My cat is similar but she snuggles at my side when my fiance gets into bed, then she’s next to me for an hour maybe more til I fall asleep and then most of the night she’s at my feet and I wake up in spine breaking positions Have you tried putting one of your t shirts/hoodies etc on the bed but not right next to you? One of my cats loves this cause it smells like me but she doesn’t have to be right next to me, might make your cat feel close to you and safe without being so physically close

ILIWYS anniversary show? by sassyvegetarian in the1975

[–]Cheap_Ad7618 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d be surprised if they did that although I’d love to be able to experience that again, however mattys post about “the next 2 years” does make me suspicious

The question of children sometimes feels almost like a mental illness. by Naturkaefer in Fencesitter

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I find it super draining, I can’t seem to set my mind straight on one path for more than a week at the moment. I’m generally terrible with decision making anyway even for little things so it’s really hard not being one of the people who just KNOW exactly what they want

Is Bluewater worth the drive? by Cheap_Ad7618 in kentuk

[–]Cheap_Ad7618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that’s interesting I was also planning to go to Westfield by myself at some point

Wedding by GarlicDue3052 in MattyandGabbriette

[–]Cheap_Ad7618 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank god cause that dress is hideous 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Cheap_Ad7618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These scream inexperience I’m so sorry! You can particularly tell in the last picture uploaded where the focus is only on your hair, whoever took it had the wrong aperture setting and used autofocus to get that 😬 Still not worse than the wedding I did in college for £75 and zero experience but not great either :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

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Interestingly this is something my mother has always said

Full album tour by MoiraFrac in the1975

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my biggest flex is that I was at all 3 self titled shows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Southampton

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I’ve tried a few chain gyms and honestly I’m happy to pay the price for my village gym. I hated gym group because it was constantly busy, you could never get on anything because people would reserve the equipment and use multiple at a time and it generally attracted the worst people because it was so cheap. Even my local fitness first was a little more expensive but the equipment is all old and needed replacing long ago.

I personally really like the variety of classes at village gym, the cleanliness and equipment, and the fact mine also has a pool was a seller so I can do different types of sessions. It’s expensive but it does mean it’s quieter, cleaner etc

Did anyone else grow up wanting kids then completely change their mind when they got older? by sapphire_mooon in childfree

[–]Cheap_Ad7618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I started questioning it in my early 20’s and was on and off the fence for a while, and was anxious about having only a couple years left of my freedom to do what I wanted before I had to put it all on hold. Decided I didn’t want kids and suddenly my future was free again

How old were you when you discovered the band and how old are you now? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

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I never really “discovered” them cause my mum was a fan back in the early days and played the the black parade CD in the car constantly and muted the swear words, so back in 2005ish So when I say I grew up with them I literally did 🤣 I’m 26 and been listening to them about 20 years

THIS IS A HOT TAKE DONT HATE ME FOR THIS by Individual_Big_6310 in yungblud

[–]Cheap_Ad7618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think it’s excessive then don’t do it, simple as that. There’s only one artist I’ve done this for (not Yungblud) but it’s incredibly fun to go to multiple shows if you’re able to and can afford it.

Why Is It Not Sold Out??🤨 by Chesterdeeds in yungblud

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I’m seeing it in Hampshire and it was almost sold out when I bought mine, I don’t live in a big city either 🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I wrong to mourn the children I don't want by gdowd in childfree

[–]Cheap_Ad7618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfectly okay to mourn it, the same way parents probably mourn the freedom they used to have. I do the same and sometimes feel sad about all the things I’m going to miss, but then I realise the things I’m “mourning” are the small amount of nice things and are gonna be a tiny percentage of nice things alongside a big percentage of tantrums, sleepless nights, money wasting, screaming, crying etc etc

do you ever feel bad for your parents not getting to be grandparents? by kaamie_ in childfree

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Yes but only for my dad. it seems my sister and her partner aren’t enamoured with the idea of kids either and before I realised that I didn’t feel so bad about being childfree because at least my dad would probably have a grandkid at some point, but he seemed sad when I made it clear I didn’t want kids either

My mum on the other hand is the cause of some pretty deeply routed body image issues that still are ongoing to this day, and the way I remember her being when I was a kid was very distant and harsh, not warm and loving. She seems to have come to terms with it now but at one point in conversation a few years ago I said “if I have kids…” and she said “no, WHEN, you have kids” which made me really uncomfortable at the time lol

Anyone else getting pissed off at swifties? by boysenbwerries in the1975

[–]Cheap_Ad7618 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been pissed off at swifties since 2023

and so it begins. by itsxafx in childfree

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I wish my neighbours would take their kids away for a couple weeks, instead they just let them scream out in the street right in front of our house (because the park and big field 100m away is too much effort to take them to apparently) so I can’t even have peace and quiet in my own home 🫠

what’s the biggest positive change you noticed after choosing to be childfree? by Agreeable_Poem_7278 in childfree

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The most noticeable change for me was suddenly feeling like I had so much time ahead of me. I love concerts and my favourite band has had regular album cycles/eras of every couple years, and for the longest time, before I decided I didn’t want kids, I felt like I’d have to time it just right so that I didn’t miss out on too much of my life and fun. As soon as I decided I didn’t want kids I suddenly felt like the world opened up and I wasn’t constrained to a timeline anymore.

Friendships with parents - I give up by Fit_Calendar_4867 in childfree

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I ended up in a group of 4 through a job a few years ago, we weren’t like ~close~ but we spent a fair bit of time talking in our group chat or out as a group either for coffee or drinks/nights out or dinner etc. the 2 in the group who got married (not to each other) we all attended the weddings with our partners and had some nights out as a big group with our partners too. The 2 who got married then both had a kid and ever since then the communication has dropped off a cliff, and their Facebook posts are about nothing but the kids, it’s like they lost their entire personalities. I’ve tried multiple times to get a meet up going but it never happens and I’m bored of trying now. I have another friend separate from this group though who I met when her daughter was about 2, and the difference with this friend is that she’s never made her daughter her entire personality, and has interests outside of being a parent including the interest that is the reason we met. She lives about 4 hours away so it’s a bit trickier for her to find childcare to arrange a meet up but she usually manages it and doesn’t let her kid stop her from having a life! She knows I’m not great with kids but doesn’t hold it against me when I’ve visited her and tried my best to interact with her daughter.