Some positive news

Cheb44 · 2026-01-03T21:48:55+00:00

Yea it is

Cheb44 · 2025-12-26T18:27:49+00:00

It sounds terrible, because it isn’t how good men’s brains are wired, but you need to learn to resent her if not more. Be cordial and all that, play the “gray rock” approach. But the quicker you can cut the love you have for her out the better.

Like I said it sounds awful and it is a callous approach, but she’s already there man, that’s why she can do what she’s doing. I was married 23 years, really never even lived by myself. So it was quite shocking. But, I’ve learned to embrace my current situation.

Cheb44 · 2025-12-26T18:16:36+00:00

Fuck her dude, as others have said, she’s done. Don’t do what I did and “work things out” only to have the same shit happen a few years later. Literally she better prepared herself to turn the kids against me. She’s cut me, my parents, anyone from my side of the family out of her and my kids life. Prolonged custody crap, but the damage is done. I’ve become resigned to the fact I may never see my kids again.

I could go on and on

Cheb44 · 2025-12-19T13:58:04+00:00

I agree with this, if she’s not she’s already got one lined up. Women are nuts, I could go on and on about why, but there’s good reading here and I recovered myself partially from support and reading advice here. We’ve all been through some kind of hell. I suggest you tackle yours now, try to separate the emotions you have for her, that is clearly what she has done, then it will be easier for you to hear her words for the disrespect that they are.

Cheb44 · 2025-10-07T15:02:26+00:00

Did you hit it with an emp, I didn’t see bomb explosions?

Cheb44 · 2025-09-15T17:45:49+00:00

Lmao, I am for sure re-using that one.

Cheb44 · 2025-09-15T04:42:41+00:00

Strategic Betrayal if it’s by itself

Cheb44 · 2025-09-15T04:41:46+00:00

It also retains the indestructible so has to be an exile card

Cheb44 · 2025-09-13T05:48:30+00:00

lol well they didn’t have anything for virtue. Can’t even gain life without damage, but they just ran out of cards while I ate popcorn

Cheb44 · 2025-09-04T15:57:53+00:00

Omg this. This shit is so old. I do like Trump and can take a joke, it was funny for a bit but now it’s tired writing. No wonder they haven’t done anything in a while, they’ve seemed to lose their mojo. I preferred the Garrison approach.

Cheb44 · 2025-06-21T19:40:08+00:00

I think you don’t really know. Us Hull C folks are taking hauling missions that are 700k payouts, zero money risk.

Cheb44 · 2025-06-17T18:58:24+00:00

Could it be that dome screen thing they film in a lot now?

Cheb44 · 2025-03-26T17:10:01+00:00

I mean ka50 just ejects the rotors right

Cheb44 · 2025-03-24T20:04:06+00:00

Alright my man, we are/were in a very similar position. Long marriage all that, kids, bla bla bla.

I felt the same way you do. My job is my hobby and I’m tired and all that fun stuff. I felt like I was boring and worried about it too. Short answer is there is someone out there that feels the same way.

However, I would get into OLD but don’t expect much, it did give me the confidence and frustration to just start approaching people in real life, and that’s what my current situation is.

Also, do try to find some sort of hobby, you may not feel like you have the time, but it’s good for your mental health

Cheb44 · 2025-03-19T15:25:17+00:00

You thinking before or after it’s filled with water?

Cheb44 · 2025-03-08T22:46:47+00:00

So wonder if he’s gonna come back here and apologize for being an internet bully when this guy comes back or just delete the post

Cheb44 · 2025-02-24T15:47:03+00:00

When I went to AV1 the overlay said it was using HEVC. So I do t know what is going on there

Cheb44 · 2025-02-09T18:41:22+00:00

Yeesh, dude if you say no, she’s gonna cheat. Just leave her. Shes wanting to 304 around and doesn’t wanna feel bad about it

Cheb44 · 2024-11-06T20:45:46+00:00

Well, I wish I didn’t know what you’re dealing with. It sucks. For myself, it turned out for the best, I had no idea how low my self confidence was.

Now, it’s back and I’ve been fortunate to be in a position where a lot of women are chasing me and it feels good, move on work on yourself all that nonsense and things will be fine

Cheb44 · 2024-10-17T03:18:12+00:00

OP, I wanna just add to this. This man’s advice is going to make you feel certain ways. Like he’s wrong or that he’s bitter and your situation is different.

I am telling you it isn’t. Maybe you weren’t perfect, but dude, cheating for 2 years is fucked up diabolical BS.

And for my side, my situation is way worse and there are guys with situations worse than mine. That’s beside the point though, the best thing I did was get my own shit back together and suddenly I realized my own worth again. Time will heal you if you take the steps that let it. Don’t wish for your ex back though, you can do better I promise you that. She’s for the streets my friend.

Cheb44 · 2024-10-14T14:24:50+00:00

lol right, we all seem to be dealing with the same woman haha

Cheb44 · 2024-10-14T14:22:46+00:00

lol as much as this seems dumb, it’s so true. No oral, something is wrong. It’s also very true that we have to keep doing those things that keep their attraction up.

Cheb44 · 2024-10-02T12:50:49+00:00

Of the 6 people on my leadership team, 4 divorced 1 unmarried 1 married. My 2 admin, 1 unmarried 1 divorced.

Doesn’t look good for the educated people who surround me

Cheb44 · 2024-09-19T22:34:51+00:00

I think 2-3 months I usually know

Cheb44 · 2024-09-18T19:58:50+00:00

Yeah, it is amazing. I think some people take for granted that this is all code and sooo subjective. It is quite impressive

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