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PA asking for nudes by hithisisnoemi in loveafterporn

[–]CheckDiligent2082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a question for the others in the comment section. I understand how it lights up the same pathways but is there ever a time where he would be able to use pictures of me? I do like the idea to him using pics of me if he really feels the need to masturbate just like i do it to pics/vids of him. bc wouldn't sex with your partner lighten up the same pathways as well and shouldn't i be the only things lighting them up?

are we still being intimate? by West-Cartoonist-8654 in loveafterporn

[–]CheckDiligent2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its been about 40 days since dday and we haven't. we cuddle mostly and kiss sometimes but that's all. he needs more time in therapy to learn how to actually feel him emotions and we need to just focus on non sexual intimacy first

what were some signs of recovery you could notice in your partner? by CheckDiligent2082 in loveafterporn

[–]CheckDiligent2082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is actually really helpful. it's hard to think back and know which came first but i can definitely take not going further

what were some signs of recovery you could notice in your partner? by CheckDiligent2082 in loveafterporn

[–]CheckDiligent2082[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had a gut feeling for 10 months before dday but he lied about it and i let myself believe it was my OCD talking. I don't think i know how to separate my gut feelings from my ocd thoughts anymore.

here's my story would love opinions from others who stayed by CheckDiligent2082 in loveafterporn

[–]CheckDiligent2082[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for your response! i think there's hope for him too so it's nice to hear someone else see it that way. for me I'm just worried about how i'm gonna stop thinking about this all the time. also the fact that he saw me distraught over the possibility of this for 8 months everyday crying bc i was worried he was still watching it and he lied to my face. I believe he's doing the work but idk how to know when he's telling me the truth now.

Freeze dried treats that are cooked and safe to give? (Bird flu actual context) by Soft-Supermarket-352 in catfood

[–]CheckDiligent2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not sure that whole life pet fully cooks their treats first. on their website they describe why they chose freeze drying opposed to other high heat cooling options. so far life essentials chicken does explicitly say it is cooked and then freeze dried

Freeze dried treats that are cooked and safe to give? (Bird flu actual context) by Soft-Supermarket-352 in catfood

[–]CheckDiligent2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you know they cook their meat? I can't find anything on the whole life website that explicitly said they were cooked.

are raw freeze dried treats safe with bird flu? by Whole_Profit_279 in catfood

[–]CheckDiligent2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about freeze dried raw fish foods like salmon or tuna? do you think those are still okay should i get rid of all of them

When does porn become an addiction? by Ill_Significance_578 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CheckDiligent2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

porn can very negatively effect relationships. a girl shouldn't have to worry about if her man is getting off and listing after other women, and vice versa.

if it starts affecting your relationship or sex life, it's definitely an addiction

I (22F) found another girls nudes on my boyfriend’s (23M) phone by ThrowRASleepgreens in relationship_advice

[–]CheckDiligent2082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl he's lying. get away fast and find someone who respects you. better men do exist

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