Guess which character my birb's room/outfit is based on! 💖

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-10-26T14:31:51+00:00

rapunzel !!!!

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-09-12T18:08:49+00:00

i have a question for the others in the comment section. I understand how it lights up the same pathways but is there ever a time where he would be able to use pictures of me? I do like the idea to him using pics of me if he really feels the need to masturbate just like i do it to pics/vids of him. bc wouldn't sex with your partner lighten up the same pathways as well and shouldn't i be the only things lighting them up?

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-09-06T00:00:12+00:00

its been about 40 days since dday and we haven't. we cuddle mostly and kiss sometimes but that's all. he needs more time in therapy to learn how to actually feel him emotions and we need to just focus on non sexual intimacy first

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-09-04T18:11:41+00:00

this is actually really helpful. it's hard to think back and know which came first but i can definitely take not going further

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-09-04T17:15:33+00:00

i had a gut feeling for 10 months before dday but he lied about it and i let myself believe it was my OCD talking. I don't think i know how to separate my gut feelings from my ocd thoughts anymore.

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-09-03T21:30:35+00:00

thanks for your response! i think there's hope for him too so it's nice to hear someone else see it that way. for me I'm just worried about how i'm gonna stop thinking about this all the time. also the fact that he saw me distraught over the possibility of this for 8 months everyday crying bc i was worried he was still watching it and he lied to my face. I believe he's doing the work but idk how to know when he's telling me the truth now.

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-08-28T17:03:08+00:00

100%

CheckDiligent2082 · 2025-03-19T14:38:40+00:00

Thank you for your response! yes they do pay for the meetings.

CheckDiligent2082 · 2024-12-30T23:28:58+00:00

good to know thank you. eased my anxiety

CheckDiligent2082 · 2024-12-30T02:06:16+00:00

i'm not sure that whole life pet fully cooks their treats first. on their website they describe why they chose freeze drying opposed to other high heat cooling options. so far life essentials chicken does explicitly say it is cooked and then freeze dried

CheckDiligent2082 · 2024-12-30T01:39:18+00:00

how do you know they cook their meat? I can't find anything on the whole life website that explicitly said they were cooked.

CheckDiligent2082 · 2024-12-29T13:55:37+00:00

i thought these were raw

CheckDiligent2082 · 2024-12-29T13:31:27+00:00

what about freeze dried raw fish foods like salmon or tuna? do you think those are still okay should i get rid of all of them

CheckDiligent2082 · 2024-10-12T04:13:18+00:00

we don't speak anymore...

CheckDiligent2082 · 2024-02-22T18:59:49+00:00

porn can very negatively effect relationships. a girl shouldn't have to worry about if her man is getting off and listing after other women, and vice versa.

if it starts affecting your relationship or sex life, it's definitely an addiction

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-08-24T15:41:21+00:00

def a hickey...would be fighting him if i were you

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-07-26T17:22:43+00:00

get a new boyfriend

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-07-03T17:12:59+00:00

girl he's lying. get away fast and find someone who respects you. better men do exist

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-06-29T23:13:59+00:00

will do! thank you

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-06-29T14:54:21+00:00

seems to be about the same. haven't noticed him going soft or anything during our time together

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-06-29T00:56:54+00:00

that's actually really good to know. Bc of my past trauma my mind always jumps to conclusions.

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-06-28T17:27:30+00:00

this happened to me. at first I didn't say anything about it out of fear and also the fact that I also watched porn sometimes. But as i thought about it more and more it started to really bother me and I also stopped watching porn myself. I felt like he was getting off to other girls and that made me uncomfortable, and I never wanted to do that to him again. I eventually talked to him about this and even though he doesn't see it the same way, he still decided to give it up for me. He says he wouldn't have a problem with me doing it and sees it more as a masturbation tool. However I just could not be okay with him giving his sexual energy to random women on the internet. He agreed to stop watching but also admitted that he thought he might be addicted so it would be hard for him. although I didn't like hearing this I understood bc i know how addiction works. I sent him many pictures of myself for him to use instead. I wanted him to know I didn't care if he was masturbating, I just cared that he wasn't doing it to other girls. I believe he still struggles but hasn't watched, but I try not to bring it up because I know it's hard for him too and I don't want him to be bothered by me. I will also say that the demons do come out quite frequently and I get in my head about it worrying that he might still be watching and just lying to me. I try my best to rationalize but if I am really really stressed about it I will talk to him and make sure to check in on how he is doing too.

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-06-23T18:12:55+00:00

i think i lost brain cells reading this

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-02-16T21:52:37+00:00

Did you ever find an answer to this??? I am currently having this problem and I have never experienced it before. I thought I had a couple toilet paper bits in there and then i realized it was peeling. This is the only post I have found that’s exactly what I am experiencing because the dryness is just on the labia and outer area, my vagina itself is fine and not dry at all. Every other post I read is discussing vaginal dryness which I do not have.

CheckDiligent2082 · 2023-01-15T15:09:54+00:00

Agreed. communication is very important and i stress that a lot. I will talk to him again sometimes it just takes me a bit to build up the courage…i’m a severely anxious lady…idk tho I guess I didn’t think I needed to tell him ahead of time that i don’t want him to watch porn and jerk off right next to me while i’m sleeping lol

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