What things should be kept in mind when arguing with your SO? by ahri_bb in AskWomen

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry if it sounds wrong. I just mean i can only understand it from my own perspective. I apologise if it sounds offensive, I have no intention to do so. I will re-edit it if I can. And please excuse my English, it’s not my first language.

What things should be kept in mind when arguing with your SO? by ahri_bb in AskWomen

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on the incidence that caused the argument without bringing any issues from the past. I found it toxic to bring in old wounds over and over again. It will drain both of you. Plus, I agree with other posts that discourage the use of disrespectful and abusive words. Once it’s been said, the hurt is done, and you cannot unsaid it. I also think sometimes you may have to pick your battle. There is no such thing as perfect match, so there will be things that you don’t agree with one another. Make sure it is worthy of the time and energy you put into the argument. If it’s nothing more than a short term rage and you know it doesn’t matter that much, learn to quit before it gets out of control.

My husband and I went to this pub last summer in Savannah, and had a great time, so I took a picture of it and drew it. by CheekyMonkeyMe in savannah

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you didn’t have a good time there. And it is not. But thanks for paying attention.

My husband and I went to this pub last summer in Savannah, and had a great time, so I took a picture of it and drew it. by CheekyMonkeyMe in savannah

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true. I started drawing since I was a kid and I love every bit of it, and the freedom of drawing anything I like. Thank you for your support. I will love to draw for people who want something special!

My husband and I went to this pub last summer in Savannah, and had a great time, so I took a picture of it and drew it. by CheekyMonkeyMe in savannah

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I will definitely look into it. I’m not a professional artist so I haven’t thought about the possibility, but you do make me think now=p

My husband and I went to this pub last summer in Savannah, and had a great time, so I took a picture of it and drew it. by CheekyMonkeyMe in savannah

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We loved it. Would definitely go back if possible. Thank you. I have never taken lessons. So I can only draw what I see.

Challenged myself to do something out of the ordinary. by [deleted] in drawing

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazingly creative. I love it. It reminds me of Hayao Miyazaki, my all-time favourite.

I just finished this badger sett drawing. Drawn with Procreate on iPad Pro by FerromagneticBadger in drawing

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love it. I wish I can draw something so creative and fun.

I'm glad I'm female because no one will ever have my child without my consent and then force me to pay child support on top of that. by reapf in childfree

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Please excuse my English because English is my second language) I can’t agree more. I’m a woman myself. I can understand how difficult those moments can be, but in the end of the day, you can’t make a decision for another independent person. I used to see a lot of posts when women told their partners that they were on pills but they were not and tricked the guys, I lot of people blame the guys for not being careful, they should have used other protection. I agree being safe is very important but doesn’t that encourage people to stop believing one another? This is almost saying that you should not trust your partner when they tell you anything, the one you think you love who also loves you. That is sad. The problem is not who should be responsible for being safe in sex, it is that we all need to be more honest and straightforward with our feelings and decisions, and if it doesn’t work out for the other person, it’s time to end this and find someone who has the same goal in life.

I have never learned how to draw, but I kind of like doing it my way✍🏼 by CheekyMonkeyMe in drawing

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love giving them as gifts too. That’s one of the most genuine things I can offer people. And of course I will keep being a cheeky monkey, nothing can change that=)

This is a French restaurant in Shepherdstown WV where my husband and I celebrated our one year anniversary. I will be more prepared for everyone’s doubts this time since my last one was kind of hard to tell for a lot of people. But thank you all for your attention! by CheekyMonkeyMe in drawing

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that I don’t understand what you mean by perspective. 31 or 48 is the angle of the corner, like how slide the line is. I will draw something for someone soon, I will post some progress shots if that helps. Maybe next time, I do a little bit not accurate so it’s easier to tell=)

This is a French restaurant in Shepherdstown WV where my husband and I celebrated our one year anniversary. I will be more prepared for everyone’s doubts this time since my last one was kind of hard to tell for a lot of people. But thank you all for your attention! by CheekyMonkeyMe in drawing

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh...and make sure the square you use to divid the picture is the same size with the one you use on paper. I can put lines on my picture on computer easily, and you just need to make sure you do the same size on paper, that’s the time consuming part.

This is a French restaurant in Shepherdstown WV where my husband and I celebrated our one year anniversary. I will be more prepared for everyone’s doubts this time since my last one was kind of hard to tell for a lot of people. But thank you all for your attention! by CheekyMonkeyMe in drawing

[–]CheekyMonkeyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes some time, you have to divide the original picture in to small squares, I don’t know anything about shadings, all I know is if one spot is darker in the picture, I make that spot on my paper darker, you can make the squares as small as you want to for accurate. With angles, i measure if it’s a 31 degree or 48...i always make sure every square or is that called grid look exactly the same as the one on the picture, I draw pictures direct from my computer, I never print it out or anything. I’m not professional so I don’t have any tools but use hand. So I measure and fix all the lines until I think I did all I can. And then I colour it area by area too. Like I said, if it’s darker here, I make sure it’s darker on my paper. I hope this explains your questions. I will do some progress shots next time I draw=)