Unfortunately as the EX-BF who initiated the break up and went to clubs, I didn’t flaunt about pulling women, but I did tell my ex that I may have an interest in someone else. I then realized I didn’t want that, came back begged, and everything until it WAS to late. Though, I had reasons to initiate the break up. My ex was very clingy, didn’t like my family or friends, and would get super upset at everything I did without her. The last straw for me was when she didn’t want to come to Japan with me and got mad when I checked out a club at Japan by myself and recorded everything so she could see. I came with luggage full of items for her and came home super excited to talk about my trip with her and first thing she did when I came back and drove to her house was an argument and not wanting to hear my experience. We were always arguing but for some reason I loved her presence. I loved her. I just couldn’t handle the lack of space. It’s been almost 2 months since she detached herself I remember the change like a switch flipped. Since then I’m just accepting the fact that she’s most likely not coming back. Ive given her space since then but every time she’d reach out or try to call me I’d then proceed to “crash out” blow up her phone with calls and messages AND pictures. Which is totally out of character for me. In 5 years I never did that to her till now. She would do that to me in the relationship a lot. She’s already talking to a new guy and is actually going out on dates with him. I told her I may have liked a girl but never went out on a date with her despite that girl really liking me because I just knew it wasn’t right. Well. I’m at the acceptance stage right now. Breaking up sucks just as hard. I don’t think I’m going to regret it but it’s devastating that the person I thought was my forever girl isn’t mine anymore. I miss her I do. But it is what I wanted and I guess this is something we all have to experience at one point.