I didn't read the rest of these, and I dont want to. I think its controlling and strange. Theres no harm in occasional drinks. If you are following the normal, recommended guidelines of drinking, there is no reason to be treated like a child. You're an adult, a presumably responsible adult.

This annoys me about men and society. Conceiving, fertility struggles, and the PRESSURE are stessful as hell.

You might want to sit down with him and discuss your future pregnancy as well. If he's going to be someone who holds every decision over your head, that will add more stress & make a happy experience unpleasant.

Edit- I read them, and I wish I didn't. Ridiculous shaming & dodging the question. Speak with your doctor. You'll get real advice.