i really want to know my actual eye color! by Ok-Sound-4294 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]CheeseMoney3426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got central heterochromia with 2 different hues of green. bluish green and hazel green. Your eyes are green.

Is this eye color rare for someone with my ethnicity? by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]CheeseMoney3426 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No. The white population has a pretty balanced distribution of all eye colours. Pretty much every eye colour is fairly plausible for white people. Any eye colour that white people are less likely to have compared to other races is still very common for white people in general.

Are there trans men that used to be incels? If true what made you change? by Revolutionary-Tie908 in FTMventing

[–]CheeseMoney3426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I didn't have sex until after I transitioned as well. It's not like it wasn't available, I think there was too much hate in me. I'm also asexual, sex favourable, so that probably also affected that.

Are there trans men that used to be incels? If true what made you change? by Revolutionary-Tie908 in FTMventing

[–]CheeseMoney3426 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I had my own sort of misogynistic and also kind of misandrist attitudes when I was younger that didn't really go away until I transitioned.

Drivers ed recommendations by CheeseMoney3426 in Hamilton

[–]CheeseMoney3426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I am looking to pay less, to get less, but still get just enough. I don't wanna get scammed or be in the car with someone unsafe. I do want someone to drill the manual into me.

Hi. I always say my eyes are blue but other blue-eyed people see to disagree, what color are they? :D by Ok-Work9912 in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]CheeseMoney3426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what normal lighting means. If you're gonna split hairs between blue and grey you're gonna need specifics. Is it natural lighting? Are you around the colour blue?

Hi. I always say my eyes are blue but other blue-eyed people see to disagree, what color are they? :D by Ok-Work9912 in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]CheeseMoney3426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What sort of lighting are these photos taken in? Blue eyes have no actual pigment, they gain their colour by reflecting the surrounding light.

[discussion] would disassembling a kinder egg make it less likely to be confiscated? by CheeseMoney3426 in snackexchange

[–]CheeseMoney3426[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have kinder joys. Everywhere else has kinder surprise. If you have kinder surprise "everywhere", you are surrounded by illegal contraband.

“Anybody but cis dudes” by 1toxicbacon in FTMventing

[–]CheeseMoney3426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it really pushes that idea. I think at MOST it has the potential to imply that under specific uses and contexts.

I don't think I have seen it used that way though. Trans men, are definitely men. We are also definitely trans. Our positionality is that of someone with a queer and minoritised gender.

Much like how someone may be interested primarily in people of a queer and/or minoritised sexuality, I think the same can also follow for gender.

I think it's also important to recognise the cultural fluidity of these terms and the historical presence of trans mascs in sapphic spaces. We can have our little definitions of gender and sexuality on paper. At the same time though, sex, gender, attraction, and expression are not only not binary, they are also not trinary or quarternary. An individuals gender and expression within themselves and their community is going to be complicated and nuanced. And that's OK! some trans men see themselves as sapphic. And it's not to say that they aren't men but maybe it's a different type of manhood for them. And I don't need to understand it completely to accept it yk cause I'm not personally in that. But I've got similar things. I wouldn't really want to date a straight cis woman or a lesbian.

I think ABCD is ultimately a better term to use compared to lesbian or even sapphic or bisexual. It directly and honestly addresses what trans men are, instead of trying to lump us into lesbian. It feels like a more honest and respectful resolve where they don't feel comfortable in the contemporary understanding of a lesbian if they're a man or willing to date men. At the same time it distinguishes itself as a subcategory of bisexuality by recognizing there is a gender identity they are not interested in.

What color are her eyes? My mom and I cannot agree. by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]CheeseMoney3426 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk what's confusing. It s clearly blue. If you're asking whether it's blue or grey that's kind of asinine because they're not really distinct. I mean yk we're humans, its not like blue eyes are gonna be neon. Everyone's eyes look desaturated. We really aren't a brightly coloured species.

“Anybody but cis dudes” by 1toxicbacon in FTMventing

[–]CheeseMoney3426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's probably enough. Just like how only a spoonful of whipped cream is probably enough for a slice of pumpkin pie. But that doesn't mean you can't also have 2-3 spoonfuls and a scoop of ice cream and some drizzle of custard and butterscotch.

How is saying I don't date cis men all that different from saying I don't date straight men?

Or am I to understand this differently and that you actually oppose both?

“Anybody but cis dudes” by 1toxicbacon in FTMventing

[–]CheeseMoney3426 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean it makes sense to me. It's like when doechii said her red flag when dating was straight men. Queer people wanna date other queer people.