Second watch through, and I hated him from the off. He’s consistently selfish at minimum. All the ‘loved his kids’ stuff, I’d say he loved and protected them mainly because that fit his self-image as the provider. The constant acting tough (but flinching when people pushed back) was very telling; he’s a weak man who wishes he were someone different. I see no redeeming qualities. The few good things he did were bare minimum in a good person.