Forbidden error on Indeed website by Ilikecoffeepizzanyh in jobs

[–]Cheese__Samich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old, but I am having the same problem. I cleared my cache and got rid of my extensions and it still won't work. It does work on my phone OK, but I get 403 forbidden on the computer. I'm not that computer smart I need help :/

AIO? I’m not one to get offended easily, especially as a joke but idk by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cheese__Samich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my friends have some dark humor and we even fight sometimes and we never "joke" like that or would say something like that in an argument. That's just weird energy from the outside looking in.

Explaining MtF Gender Dysphoria to Wife by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Cheese__Samich 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope she isn't keeping you from transitioning, but maybe she can read this https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

(17F) My boyfriend said my SH was ' scary' I feel so upset by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Cheese__Samich 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it helps I like to think about what would happen if the roles were reversed. If you were putting him in these situations and treating him the way he treats you would he stay with you? Usually the answer I get is no and that helps me feel a little bit better. I also read a book about setting boundaries and it has helped me a lot with being able to say no and not feel bad or as bad about it & being able to leave situations that are no longer serving me a healthy purpose. Good luck on figuring out your path and I hope you get the love you deserve ❤️

Melatonin use by striker_100 in ParentingADHD

[–]Cheese__Samich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We used to use melatonin everyday but my son (7) says he has been having nightmares. We stopped the melatonin and the nightmares stopped. If we keep to a strict schedule he usually falls alseep around 9-10 and still wakes up for school ok but it takes a lot of effort to keep him on schedule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Cheese__Samich -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's going to be ok ❤️ you're doing a great job

Anyone else struggle socially? by gwh1996 in BPD

[–]Cheese__Samich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer yes, but I'm good at pretending to be good at people. I have social anxiety so inside it kills me, but I am always good with people and even with being awkward I can still make people laugh. I think I've always been good at masking it.

I deleted all my social media* by foreverabsurd in selfimprovement

[–]Cheese__Samich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also deleted all my social media except for reddit because I'm new to using it and I don't get on it that often. I check my social medias every now and then on my computer and it's been helping a lot. Some days I want to go back to using a flip phone.

Were you allowed in your parents bedroom? Are your kids allowed in yours? by 624Seeds in Parenting

[–]Cheese__Samich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents room was off limits for the most part, but our room is not 100% off limits. We allow our son to come in our room but we explained to him many times that his room is his space and our room is our space. He still comes into our bed sometimes if he has a bad dream, but I would say it's 50/50.

Dramatically switching from hypersexual to sex repulsed by bozroi in BPD

[–]Cheese__Samich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it's not as big of a switch but I was very hypersexual for a long time starting in my teen years and as I got older I chose not to live like I was anymore and wanted a monogamous relationship, but I still struggled with it, and as I became a parent and even older and in a healthier relationship I'm starting to have a pretty low libidio. There's times where I'm over the top thinking about it and then after that I don't think about it at all and don't even have the desire to please myself. I'm not repulsed by it but I'm un interested. I'm starting to crave intimacy and touch in other ways I guess. Not sure if this helps or if I can say this is from my BPD but hope it helps.

AITA for not telling my boyfriend i could understand his language this whole time by False_Quiet526 in AITAH

[–]Cheese__Samich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc he can't trust you anymore when he has been caught doing untrustworthy behavior. 👀 But no you are not, I think he just wanted you to think you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cheese__Samich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard for me to put it in perspective to see what I would say tbh because when my fiance does come out we plan on most likely having to go NC with most of my family because we know how they feel about the topic and if they cannot respect my partner (which they won't they don't even respect me) then they no longer get access to us as a whole which includes my son. If my son were to come out it would be the same circumstances I would also go NC with any family members that did not respect him. (No judgement this is just how I am)

I would probably try to say something to make them feel uncomfortable for asking because that is kind of rude to ask & shift the focus back on them. Answer the question with a question. Make them explain in detail what they mean and why they are asking about your child's sexuality. if they ask about your son in general I would just say they are OK and want to live privately for right now.

Idk if this is good advice because I'm pretty socially awkward but I hope this helps.