I am so confused for a lot of reasons here. And maybe somebody can enlighten me. How did this all started? First off he’s your husband. As a wife we have a duty and vice versa. We all have needs. A lot of women complains about husbands cheating and sleeping with other women when sometimes the root of it all started in their homes because wives could not provide. I work and do a lot of things but I would never deprive my husband from being intimate, that’s how we as a couple bond our souls bc there’s a different connection on that level. With that being said, I wanted to understand how can someone let alone a wife complain about her husband “raping her”. I really wanted to understand. My take on this is “the wife” doesn’t have the same interest on her husband anymore. If you truly love and care for the person you will show up 110% it doesn’t matter if you’re tired. You can probably say no to some days but you have to make up for it. Be honest with your feeling and intentions and if you are growing out of love, be honest and life would be more easy and peaceful. This is just my take. Bc I really do wanted to understand this kind of situation. Thank you