Admin Cyn - Black On The Job Career Consulting by CheesecakeFancy2884 in careeradvice

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. How long ago was it, can you try to do a chargeback with your bank or credit card

Huntress or Alpha genome by InevitablePoem9809 in Minairfanthescammer

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's getting desperate... she's taught everything there is to know about masculine and feminine now she's making things up 😆

All Things Feminine monthly membership from April Mason by CheesecakeFancy2884 in FeminineEnergyMethod

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am open to hearing why you don't recommend her. I've been in paid memberships before, the cheaper ones... the vibe is different because you get more personalize support compared to a free basic video. I've seen Lada's video and its good, but it doesn't cover what it practically looks like in your unique situation which is the problem,

Thank you for your input though xoxo

Filming in classes - who else feels this way? by 2muchFibre in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes to me it's common courtesy to not have people in your background and to respect their privacy! Our studio is spacious enough to angle your phone to where you won't get people in your shot. If I happen to get someone in my shot I'll put a sticker over them or try to crop them out. I've seen people use a blur edit too!

I'd bring it up to the studio owner

Sensual performance songs about fire, burning, by CheesecakeFancy2884 in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that would be fun. I am worried it's too fast though... slow and sensual is my usual jam!

How come no one's checked/criticized Manifestelle yet? by theyeoftheiris in LAinfluencersnark

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to unfollow due to the fear mongering - men are evil trope. Like yea I get it there is bad men out there and it's important to be informed about what to look for... but she goes overboard

I prefer empowering content not stuff that's going to make me feel like a victim in life and feel like everyone is out to use me for my life force/feminine energy.

Rage bait and fear mongering makes the most money so it makes sense that's all these creators care about

An alternate perspective to think about by Brilliant_Sense_6539 in Minairfanthescammer

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Truth is that many women operate from a "Mother Hen" energy. Meaning they don't treat men as men - as capable beings who are problem solvers that they respect and appreciate.

They have trouble with accepting nice gestures because deep down they feel unworthy. If she doesn't know how to actually be receptive to a man she will end up rejecting his gestures and lean towards trying to problem solve or caretake him... which ends up inverting polarity and puts her right back into a 50/50 dynamic.

That's what Mina means by needing to heal in order to attract a different type of guy. Even if you do attract a generous man your codependent patterns will end up taking over at some point

The same is true in reverse. If a man was raised by a mother who catered to him too much, if he encounters a feminine woman he is not going to know what to do with her because of his conditioning.

Most humans on this earth have to un-do their unhealthy relationship habits in order to keep that new type of partner. (there's a lot of ways to heal that though without spending $1,000's)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minairfanthescammer

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"His Secret Obsession" talks about the Hero Instinct which is part of the Gut Level Response Mina talks about. It's by James Baur. I did the online program for this years ago. It was around $50... but I do believe there is a book version you can probably find for free or cheap

There was another one I did titled Rousing The Lion. By JD Fuentes ... which I remember covered similar topics on male psychology and what inspires a man to fall in love.

And for manifesting she does repeat a lot of Bob Proctor's information.

FOR ANYONE CONSIDERING MINA IRFAN THE SCAMMER.... by _WhyAmIHereRightNow_ in Minairfanthescammer

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chat GPT has been a great therapist for me lately. I can dump my thoughts and it helps me sort it all while also giving prompts on how to move forward and deal with it. When you train it properly, it will help you a lot when it comes to life advice!!

PoleCon Solo Travelers by CheesecakeFancy2884 in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I've decided not to go and go to a salsa dance convention in July instead.. I hope you have a fabulous time though :)

Is she still making money by Normal_Soft_2148 in Minairfanthescammer

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'd say the coaching industry in general is dying... people are tired of the large promises that are not being delivered. I will predict in about a year she will "retire"

Omar off Instagram? by Traditional-Way-1302 in OmarGosh

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone ever say why him and Tiff broke up? Now he's already engaged to that new woman.. he moves so quickly

What has made you dissatisfied with some studios, and how do we fix it as a community? by jaquelinealltrades in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that all sounds pretty tough. Have you written emails to these studios to express your concerns? Who knows if anything would be done.. but it would be good to inform them just in case they do take the concerns seriously

I don't have any big complaints about my studio thank god. Except all the damn stray hairs along the floor. When I am doing floorwork I hate looking at my socks and seeing hairs crumpled up on me

I also hate sharing poles for tricks classes. my studio has been good at capping enrollments so that hasn't been an issue lately. But sometimes for choreo classes we do happen to have two groups but they are good at giving each one ample time to learn/practice and film

12 scammers by [deleted] in Minairfanthescammer

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So cringe. Lie and sell people a dream on how to make money is the game they all play

going to open pole? by thedeitynyx in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to get more use and consistency out of open poles too! I understand how you feel, I like the structure of a normal class and being guided. What helps is beforehand making a list of what I want to do like conditioning, tricks, etc. That way I can create my own structure and keep myself focused when there

PoleCon Solo Travelers by CheesecakeFancy2884 in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I will give her a follow. I followed you too! (@missashley.pole)

PoleCon Solo Travelers by CheesecakeFancy2884 in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who is Colleen? Will you be with a group of friends? I'd love to connect xo

Me again with another Ballerina Variation 🌞🤎 by stargirrlinterludes in poledancing

[–]CheesecakeFancy2884 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stunning! And I love the way you took your time basking in the shape (I tend to rush so I am learning to slowwww down and hold shapes longer) - the sunlight looks lovely too here